If you ask your partner about his day or if they have had a good day do they ask you back?
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Yes, my partner always asks how I slept, then asks me throughout the day how I am and how my day was, and I ask the same back.

This is the one thing that annoys me about my partner and we bicker about it alot. I will ask him how his day was and he will give me a whole essay, hardly ever asks me about mine😭

He usually goes on for about half an hr explaining his day before he asks me back. But he usually knows where I’ve been, who we saw, what we did I mean I send him random pics and vids throughout the day. Or he’ll ask “how was the zoo w Susan” etc. he does ask. But he already knows what we did he’s just initiating convo. My days are never the same though. I’m always doing something diff tmr that I did today so he goes on for 30mins then it’s my turn to go on for 30mins. We sit and chat about our day at dinner time. Phones away and tvs are off while eating, i guess that helps

No
But he is a narcissist so I wouldn't expect him to

Sometimes 😂 I do it too though. It doesn't always occur to me to ask the question back, but not because I don't care. I'm probably thinking of the next thing I want to say

YES

We ask/talk about each other’s day everyday. My husband will text and check up on me when he’s at work if I was doing okay and how is everything at home.
I’m 33 weeks pregnant. My husband and I had a fight today and now he is saying he might not join me in traveling to a family wedding this weekend. That feels like a dealbreaker to me, like I can’t count on him to be there through the bad times. It makes me want a divorce. But I also feel like I cannot go through labor and the early days of having an infant alone. And of course divorce would have all kinds of financial and custody complications. My parents are planning to visit for a couple weeks around my due date but they live far away and I don’t have any family near by.
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So my partner went back to work on Monday after having 3 weeks off. Monday itself wasnt too bad because I had made plans to see a friend, but yesterday I really struggled because we didnt see anyone. I have friends that I can message but its not really the same, and I have plans later in the week that im looking forward to but on the days where its just me and my two daughters(3 weeks & 9), I feel so alone. And it is only day 3 today so I know it'll get better but when my oldest (9) goes back to school next week I feel like its gonna be worse cos I will be on my own. Will it get better or will I just get used to it?

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SAHM’s do you feel weird buying your man gifts with his own money? I guess it’s not weird but I feel that way because I used to want to buy my friends gifts with my own money when I lived with my parents.
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Looking for a bestie I really get super lonely I’m full time mom/wife. I’m 32 I have children different age groups 15,9, 2, and 1. I just love someone talk to daily even if you live far, I’m very outgoing mom.

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How do you ever get out of the cycle? If you work and slowly save over years to maybe one day break the cycle and purchase your own property but then as soon as you hit £6k in saving your benefits decrease then stop completely at £16k. You’ll never be able to own anything if you’re having to pay a privately rented accomodation by yourself with no help but if you recieve help you’ll have to recieve it forever cause you’ll never be able to save to buy? So confused
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I think my husband has more faith in other men than I do. He keeps making comments on me sleeping with other men or chatting them up online. Who tf told him that other men were that interesting? I would sooner go home and play with my rose than I would entertain another man. Especially after the BS I've been through with hubs. I'm not one of those the grass is greener on the other side type of woman. I'm the type of person that enjoys my own company and would sooner choose to be alone than entertain another man. Men don't do shit but cause headaches and mess up your PH balance. Fuck them all tbh! He's lucky I'm still with him if I'm being completely honest. But let me just sip on this coffee.
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