Divorce?

yes i can feel u mama❤️have a conversation with him about how the whole thing made u really feel and maybe he will understand, if not have a talk with someone you trust about divorce possibly

Could he be saying that just bc u fought. Saying something he knows will upset u is his way of “ winning “ what ever argument u had? I had a fight with my boyfriend 1 day prior to my best friend’s wedding. The fight was random and not that serious. He said he wasn’t gunna go anymore. I told him why that be hurtful and too last minute. Few hours later he admitted to me he only said that bc he knew it p*ss me off in the moment. Hopefully thats the case here! If ur thinking about divorce it must be due to other reasons than this. If not, then maybe a combination of his lack of respect for ur feelings towards this important event/ hormonal fluctuation. I mean ofc if he actually doesn’t go that’s another situation. But u wrote that he said “ might not “. I’m not aware of what the fight was about but I think there’s still a high chance he will go. He’s just using what he knows he can say.. to upset u in the heat of an angry moment. Fingers crossed.

Before either of you do anything rash, I would have a conversation.

It’s OK 🙂 my husband and I just fought exactly like this and he almost tried to cancel his trip to come see me and he threatened ! I panicked and I had this moment of revelation and I went for a run for the first time in weeks and my head just cleared ! We had the best conversation today making up and we both said sorry… He said I was the best wife ever. I don’t know if this is all pregnancy hormone although I’m pretty sure I’m 90% insane.

I’m sure you guys will make up and by the weekend he’s going to be happy and excited to go to the wedding.