Lack of sex

Been with my husband for 4 years and we have 1 child who is 2. There has been such little sex from when I was pregnant until now. I feel like I’m begging him to be intimate with me so I haven’t bothered and it’s been month and it’s like he’s not fussed at all.

The most will happen is a cuddle or a kiss. We don’t make out or anything and I feel like I’m losing interest completely as I don’t want to be in a sexless marriage.

Not sure what to do when we have had numerous conversations about it. I’ve tried spicing things up with outfits and sex toys but still nothing. Last time we had sex was 2 months ago and I feel like that’s a long time. All previous relationships we would have sex multiple times each week and it’s something I enjoyed so really just want to know do I give up at the point? Anyone experiencing the same?

I just feel so lonely and unwanted! I get more attention from random men on the street. He will tell me I look like or sexy and that’s it.

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get a side man? clearly he doesn’t get it!

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Have u tried being super upfront and tell him this and say if we don’t I can’t do this anymore
He could have low sex drive and need vitamins see if he’s willing to go for a blood test to see if he’s is low? Vitamin D is good for boasting one maybe start cooking food rich in proteins n vitamin D see if that changes anything
Good luck hun

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Lack of sex

Been with my husband for 4 years and we have 1 child who is 2. There has been such little sex from when I was pregnant until now. I feel like I’m begging him to be intimate with me so I haven’t bothered and it’s been month and it’s like he’s not fussed at all.

The most will happen is a cuddle or a kiss. We don’t make out or anything and I feel like I’m losing interest completely as I don’t want to be in a sexless marriage.

Not sure what to do when we have had numerous conversations about it. I’ve tried spicing things up with outfits and sex toys but still nothing. Last time we had sex was 2 months ago and I feel like that’s a long time. All previous relationships we would have sex multiple times each week and it’s something I enjoyed so really just want to know do I give up at the point? Anyone experiencing the same?

I just feel so lonely and unwanted! I get more attention from random men on the street. He will tell me I look like or sexy and that’s it.

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Anyone???

I just want a mum friend who’s on the same wavelength as me. Someone who’s winging motherhood but still enjoying every chapter of it.

Someone to go for walks with, do baby shopping with, have random little days out with. Someone who can come round while the kids play and we chat, sit watching a film, have a brew… or maybe a cheeky beverage 😂

Someone for Delilah to grow up with too, a little best friend she can learn, play and make memories with.

But most importantly, I just want someone genuine. Not stuck up, not a Karen 😂, not someone who’s judgmental.

Just a proper friend. Someone real and genuine. Someone who will love and care for my little girl when she’s around her, and I’d do exactly the same for their little one. Someone we can make memories with, laugh with, cry with, and navigate this absolute madness called motherhood together.

Surely there’s another mum out there looking for the same thing? 🫶🏼

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