Okay hear me out when I ask this

If you are in the dating field and a man or woman say the past 5 relationships they been cheated on. Wouldn't that be a red flag? CHEATING IS NOT OKAY!!!!!! but in the back of mind I want to know why they are cheating? šŸ¤”

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I would just assume they were lying

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I would also think they’re lying. Some people want to be professional victims šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø

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I bet they kept having some kind of on again off again stuff going on where the partner had no idea if they were together or they were lying.

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Yeahhhh kinda, I mean a few times sure but 5/5 of their last relationships? I’d be asking hella clarifying questions 🫠 and running far away if they’re one of those people who paint all their exes as crazy, when men say that it’s a huge red flag in my eyes lol

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I wouldnt blame him for them cheating. I would want to know why it seems he keep picking people with character issues. Did he choose vainly? Is he himself vain? Hmmm

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Seriously who gets cheated on with the last FIVE relationships. Sounds like a habitual victim or someone who loves sympathy by trauma dumping. Bt either way I wouldn’t feel sorry for them & to start dating them. Ppl like that need to stay single & they need therapy not to go out dating even if it’s casual. That individual needs to focus on themselves for awhile. Ppl don’t deserve to get cheated on bt being cheated on 5 times is a little overkill and excessive, doesn’t sound tru and if it is it’s a red flag 🚩

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I’d probably assume he’s the one who is actually the cheater.

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yeaahhh that sounds like a confession to cheating in their last 5 relationships lmao.

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I have a pretty good friend that is a pathological liar and this makes me think of her! Lots of crazy made up relationships stories that make her look like the victim or like the main character. I’ve known her since elementary school and she’s always been like this

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Okay hear me out when I ask this

If you are in the dating field and a man or woman say the past 5 relationships they been cheated on. Wouldn't that be a red flag? CHEATING IS NOT OKAY!!!!!! but in the back of mind I want to know why they are cheating? šŸ¤”

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