debating #2

0-1 was worse than 1-2. 1-2 is hell quite frequently but for me it’s easier than 0-1. i had 2u2 bit my first was colicky and didn’t sleep through the night and go down normally until almost 2. my second has been opposite, easy days are easy, but hard days are WAY harder. if YOU want a second and have SUPPORT then go for it, if you’re having a second for your first or for someone else? absolutely do not do it.

I'll know soon which transition is easier as we're expecting our second in October 🤪 In all seriousness though, almost everyone I've talked to has said the transition from 1-2 is WAY easier than 0-1 because you are more experienced and know what to expect more.

dont do it lol unless you have a big village and major support and your spouse dont work.alot as a mom of three i am pulling my hair out bit by bit