So I gave birth 15 months ago and had quite a traumatic vaginal birth (forceps, episiotomy, 3rd degree tear etc) I’m pregnant again and I’m thinking to go for an elected c section as I cannot bear to think about going through all that again or even taking that risk. Has anyone had an elected c section before? Would you recommend? How was your experience? Any tips or advice would be appreciated x
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I’ve had two and personally loved them. Very calm, controlled and happy experiences with zero trauma for me or the kids. I’ll have my third the same way. Pain wise, I’ve had worse periods than my recoveries but it’s all very individual.
Thank you for sharing that Sarah, really appreciate it and it’s super helpful to know

I had a traumatic first birth which ended up in a c section and I did an elective for my second and it was the best!! My doctors performed the c section with the highest care, I got to put music on, and i recovered in less than 48 hours Bc of how well they did.

I opted for a csection after 2 similar births
I never got it as I went into natural labour and theatre was too busy. It was my easiest birth x
They say the first is the worst where as any more are easier as the body's done it before
You do what you feel safest doing x

I had one this time round.
And I Really didn’t want it, I wanted to go as natural as possible (1st one was proper c-section emergency, knocked out etc). But because I was having a big baby this time there were a lot of risks.
Anyway, Last min we decided to have elective after docs advice. It was actually amazing!! It was so calm and great I’d do it again!! We had an amazing team, had a laugh & it was emotional as hell, everyone viably happy for us!
My only advice would be to make sure you have a playlist ready lol - we had a Geordie baby so decided in the room to just stick Sam fender on as we didn’t know that was a thing!
Recovery isn’t great obvs but I seen it as I was taking the risk and hassle for babies sake. I’m 5.5weeks now and it’s absolutely flew!! I was driving at 4weeks! Good luck!
So I never knew I was pregnant (I’m currently 11 months postpartum), I started getting kicking sensations and then my stomach started to move. I then took a pregnancy test 2 weeks ago and had a scan 4 days later. I’m currently 27 weeks pregnant.
I feel extremely guilty that I didn’t know for MANY reasons 😭
1. No screening can be done.
2. I started Mounjaro 6 weeks before finding out I was pregnant 😭 (I was roughly 19 weeks pregnant).
I genuinely feel like i have failed my little boy and I cry nearly everyday.
My question now is, I went for a private scan and baby was healthy and measured perfectly except with his tummy measuring a few days smaller. I then had a NHS scan and a midwife appointment and they plotted him on the growth chart and apparently he’s measuring really small😭😭😭
I had a call with the OB today and he said he’s not convinced he’s a small baby but he’s sending me for another scan. Obviously I’m REALLY stressed and now feel even more awful!!!
1. Has anyone experienced something like this to find out that the baby was actually fine and the plotting was wrong?
2. Has anyone taken mounjaro while pregnant and had a healthy baby🥺
Please as I have mentioned, I’m already aware I’ve messed up so PLEASE be kind.
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So I gave birth 15 months ago and had quite a traumatic vaginal birth (forceps, episiotomy, 3rd degree tear etc) I’m pregnant again and I’m thinking to go for an elected c section as I cannot bear to think about going through all that again or even taking that risk. Has anyone had an elected c section before? Would you recommend? How was your experience? Any tips or advice would be appreciated x
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