TOLAC/VBAC
I currently see an OB in Tarzana, CA. I can honestly say I’ve always felt he’s an intelligent man with amazing bedside manner. I had an unplanned c-section November 2022 and have baby #2 on the way in February 2027. My c-section was because my babies cord was wrapped around his neck four times. I did my research and I’d be a great candidate for TOLAC/VBAC. I’ve also viewed Reddit forums where many women have had supportive OB’s that welcome trying. My OB says he can perform it, but makes me feel foolish for wanting to attempt it. Saying that a uterine rupture is harmful to me and detrimental to the baby (death). The fear being instilled in me prevents me from wanting to do this very thing I feel I deserve to experience. However, that very entitlement makes me wonder if I’ll regret attempting it if something goes wrong.
Can anyone share their experience and maybe suggest an OB that was supportive in or near Tarzana, CA?
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Find a new OB. Unless he's giving you a specific reason why you're not a good candidate, then it's probably his rude way of saying he's not a well equipped provider to support that route.
Consider seeing a midwife. There are many lovely midwives in the general area!
Dr Weiss at Kaiser Woodland Hills is amazing.
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I currently see an OB in Tarzana, CA. I can honestly say I’ve always felt he’s an intelligent man with amazing bedside manner. I had an unplanned c-section November 2022 and have baby #2 on the way in February 2027. My c-section was because my babies cord was wrapped around his neck four times. I did my research and I’d be a great candidate for TOLAC/VBAC. I’ve also viewed Reddit forums where many women have had supportive OB’s that welcome trying. My OB says he can perform it, but makes me feel foolish for wanting to attempt it. Saying that a uterine rupture is harmful to me and detrimental to the baby (death). The fear being instilled in me prevents me from wanting to do this very thing I feel I deserve to experience. However, that very entitlement makes me wonder if I’ll regret attempting it if something goes wrong.
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