AITA?

No you aren't the problem. I don't know her so I'm not going to say she is a problem but I've seen this dynamic play out and it ends in divorce when women prefer to go out by themselves especially if it's to get attention. Me and my husband actually are in a similar situation where we prefer to do most things together- although he has plenty of guy time and I get to work with my best friend so I luckily see my friends a lot. On the flip side we have friends who have always preferred to do things separate and are now getting divorced. Spending time and enjoying spending time with your spouse is a good thing. Of course we all need time on our own a healthy balance

That aint right to me like why would she want all the male attention when she's NEWLY MARRIED?! Surely the only male attention she should want is her husband's or am I being too close minded? 🤔 Sorry it's just my view

it sounds like she is trying to live like a single girl on the weekends to forget her mom/wife life 😅 you’re nta, you’re the normal one 😅. it’s normal to go out with friends and have a drink or two every once in a while to let go of responsibilities and feel like an old version of yourself again, but getting absolutely wasted drunk and needing to escape every single weekend when your children need you is not normal or okay. she might be going through a dark time? maybe she is fighting with her husband or something is wrong in the relationship and that’s why she wants a lot of attention outside of her relationship and doesn’t want to do double dates. maybe she is depressed and it’s her way of coping?