I am aware tongue tie cant be diagnosed from photos. But at birth we were told my son had a posterior tongue tie by a midwife. We had a lactation consultant at 8 weeks where he scored a 2/8 with low oral function and then at 11 weeks we got refered to the tongue tie clinic but the lady looked and said nope no tongue tie. My son is now 17 weeks old and does nothing but scream. We got told colic. Would end at 12 weeks. If anything its getting worse. Weve had cmpa formula. Reflux medications. He has never taken more than 3 oz. He gets tired before even finishing 3oz and falls asleep. He has awful reflux. And just screams all the time. Its £280 for a private clinic and I really dont have the money and dont want to go if shes just going to tell me the same thing. But I dont know what else to do. In the back of my head is the midwife who told me there was a posterior tie. He has all tongue tie symptoms. Clicking, milk dripping. If i know a tongue tie cut would help him id pull the money together somehow. But I just need help. Its been 17 weeks of constant screaming. He dropped from 60th to 17th centile. Hes currently gaining around 10g per week. Doctors and health visitor are absolutely useless. He has an appointment at the children's hospital. But not until the end of october
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We took our boy to the chiropractor, this is where we was told about out son having a tongue tie after he had it cut we saw the chiropractor a couple days later and they work on the mouth and tightness under the tongue and some other stuff once they’ve had the tongue cut, so may be worth seeing a chiropractor x

Colic is a symptom NOT diagnosis. I highly recommend a chiropractor! They do oral work to help with baby’s latch
Weve been to a cranial ostepath 4 times which has put me down £300 and still havent seen a single difference so im really kind of put off trying anything else
I have an almost 2 year old daughter
She’s my whole life I adore her
I had a bit of a meltdown yesterday
We found out we’re having another daughter & I absolutely weeped like I mourned a son that was never meant for me
I dreamed up an entire world with my daughter & this second child being a son & it’s hit me so hard knowing now that won’t be my reality
I’m finding it really difficult to accept
Has anyone felt this way
I see all kinds of families around me with & without children with boys with girls with a mix etc
I am so grateful for everything I have
I just can’t help this feeling
My heart aches
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My baby boy is 14 weeks and recently has been getting up earlier and earlier in the morning, he goes to bed 7-7.30pm and wakes once or twice in the night and wakes up at 7.. but now it’s 6am, 5.30, 5.15am. Any advice please, is he going to bed too early?

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Hi all, this is very much a first world problem but thought it doesn’t hurt to ask. Our house is very small and so my PC/desk is in the nursery and the room is kind of split in half, I use it to game and create crafts on the side which I sell. Usually, I do this when baby goes to bed around 7pm as he’s not sleeping in that room yet and I get a good few hours every night and honestly I love this time it just makes me feel human again. Soon, our son is going to have to move into that room and I’m worried this means I won’t be able to use the room anymore in the evening as I literally have no where else in the house my desk can go. I just wondered if anyone was in a similar situation and either tried to use the room quietly and if that worked?
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Hey there I’m a ftm and been home with my baby for 6 months. I enjoy it but I’m also wanting to provide more for her by getting an education or mentorship. What age do you think is gonna be the best to start setting those goals? Right now I feel like I’m too busy with her and keeping up with our house.

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Is my son the only one who watches Ms. Racheal and responds no when she asks if he can say or do something? It’s adorable and hilarious but should I be concerned? lol

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Any advice on baby sleeping in the next to me? My 2 week old will sleep so well on me but when I transfer he does half the time or will wake up straight away. 👶

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