Sleep regression 11 week old preemie.

FTM and any advice would be amazing. Can my baby go through a sleep regression at 11/12 weeks, 1 week adjusted.
He just will not be put down to bed, as soon as he is laid down he is wide awake and crying. He is absolutely fine when held, fast asleep, calm and goes back to sleep quite quickly.
I’m also wondering when to start a routine with him as at the moment we are on demand feeding and just going with flow of when he is awake and sleep, me and my partner are taking it in shift on a night but he is due to go back to work soon and the last thing I want is to be awake all night because he won’t settle and then struggle during the day with him sleeping most of the day. This is what is happening at the moment, literally asleep most of the day, if we wake him he screams the place down or as soon as he wakes wants feeding even if only feed 1hour ago and sometimes not even that.

I know things are different with him being 11 weeks prem but just want some help/ advice, thank you!

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I had a bit of a meltdown yesterday
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