Confused

So my bf and I broke up during my pregnancy and he hasn’t been over since I have given birth he was there in the hospital and stayed the night at my house when I came home from the hospital but hasn’t been over since. his mom keep asking for me to bring our daughter over to her house. And now she wants our daughter tomorrow to meet her mom but my baby is barely two weeks old and then he wants her all day on the 12th has anyone else shared or had this experience before I am really just looking for advice and giving you guys all the details to help this is just so new to me

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you don’t have to give that baby to no one if you don’t feel comfortable!!

You just had a baby, give yourself time to heal and bond with your child. I’m sorry you’re being pressured, two weeks is very very early to have your baby away from you and to be taking them around so many people so soon. If you feel comfortable doing that then go ahead! If anything they should come to you!! In my opinion two weeks is way too soon to be away from a newborn for an entire day that is a huge ask especially for a new mom / first time mom

Like I have two other kids and no one is respecting or getting that it’s just an automatic bring her or for me to do this or that it’s just too much

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