Unhinged reasons for a relationship breakup?

What is your most u hinged relationship breakup? Trying to cheer up a friend that found out he is cheating and got the other person pregnant

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I dated a guy that cheated on me and the way I found out was him getting arrested on rape charges. Come to find out he did cheat but they were looking for someone else so the charges were dropped AFTER COURT

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I dumped a guy because he told me depression isn't real and you just need to "get over it". He also lied about his age, he was 35 and I was very freshly 18.

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Not me, but a friend broke up with a guy cause he stole an avocado from the supermarket. He went through self checkout and didn't weigh it.

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I got dumped because my ex said he spoke to his grandpa and gramps told him we weren’t meant to be with each other till our 40s. His grandpa had been dead for 10 years at that point

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My friend stopped speaking to a guy because of his cardigans. No other complaints, just the cardigans. In fairness I saw them and I’d have done the same🤣

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My boyfriend drank essential oils.

I watched him dump a bottle in his water one morning and I was like WHAT ARE YOU DOING. And he said it’s eucalyptus or whatever it helps you relax. And I was like… dude you’re supposed to smell it. You don’t drink it. Doesn’t that taste awful? He was like “ I think I know what I’m doing here. I’ve been using them for months and it really helps.” I showed him the bottle that said “warning: not for consumption” and then I broke up with him because how can you be that stupid?

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1 boyfriend that I dated briefly was a navy seal, which is quite an accomplishment. But for some reason he decided he needed to embellish more to impress me and told me this detailed story of a mission where he was separated from his team and almost caught and there was something about him offering a kid his candy bar to keep him quiet. Then he recommended me to read this book and the story had a part that was EXACTLY THE SAME down to the detail of the candy bar. I broke up with him after that because I didn’t like that he lied to me, and also was insulted that he thought I wouldn’t realize after reading the book that inspired his lie 🤦‍♀️.

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I got left on the side of the road by this one guy I was talking to because I didn’t want to go to his house and he got mad when I asked him to drop me off home so instead he drove farther away from my house and finally let me out on the side of the road at night.

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What is wrong with me and how do I fix it 😩 (sorry for posting here but keep posting this everywhere and not getting any replies and this is the only group where loads of people respond)

So ever since the first trimester I just haven’t been wanting sex at all- im 2 years post partum. I went through a horny stage in the second trimester but that didn’t last very long and for the past two years as well I’m just not fussed at all. I could go weeks if not months without sex, I’m not bothered. Obviously we do have sex every week but I never initiate it and I don’t particularly enjoy it when we do do it, I’m just there sort of forcing myself to do it. Does this mean I don’t love my partner anymore?? (I feel like I do and I am attracted to him and everything so it makes no sense). I’m so worried about it and so is he. I used to be a sex addict, I’d literally always be wanting it, even when I was single I always had sex with people on a regular basis because I loved it so much. I just can’t keep blaming it on post partum and I don’t have any more excuses for why I don’t want it but I just don’t. Nothing turns me on now, not even the things that used to before, I don’t even like my nipples being touched like I used to- still breastfeed but only mornings and evenings and not for very long so idk if that has something to do with that.

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Unhinged reasons for a relationship breakup?

What is your most u hinged relationship breakup? Trying to cheer up a friend that found out he is cheating and got the other person pregnant

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Mamas, Am I overreacting?

I've been friends with these lovely ladies since our uni days. We used to meet up, go out, etc. Since finishing uni, getting married, and having my baby, we don't really talk much anymore, which is fair enough, we're all busy with life.

After I gave birth, I had my baby's naming ceremony a few months later. None of them could make it. One said it was too far, one had work, one didn't even open my message to see the invite, and another had travelled. Since having my baby, not one of them has come to visit me.

Now, 6 months into motherhood, they're suggesting we all meet up and go out. I honestly can't be bothered. Am I overreacting?

What also doesn't sit right with me is that no one has made the effort to come and see me, but now they want to meet halfway and bring my baby along? It almost feels like they want to see the baby now that it's convenient for them. That doesn't really sit well with me.

We have a group chat, and I haven't replied to the messages about meeting up yet. They want us to meet halfway since we all live in different places.

Would you:
- Not go at all?
- Go but leave the baby at home with my mum?
- Or just say I'm not comfortable bringing my baby out yet?

For context, she's exclusively breastfed. The only place I've really taken her is to one wedding with my husband. We haven't done trains or long trips yet, so I'm genuinely not comfortable with that either.

I think I'm feeling a bit hurt because none of them have made the effort to visit me during these past 6 months, especially when becoming a mum has been such a huge life change.

Am I doing too much, or would you feel a bit off too? I lowkey don’t want to go tbh , but would be nice just to go out!

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