RANT

Hi Girls, it’s my birthday in literally 45 mins and im literally alone because my boyfriend thought carnival was more important than me…he went today instead of being with me he didn’t even tell me he was going, he purposely delayed telling me when he was there and I just feel like im done with him. I’ve already done most this pregnancy him barely scraping the bare minimum its actually hard to even fathom this is a boyfriend. I’m 35 weeks pregnant and this really hurt my feelings today. You’ve gone to carnival knowing you have a heavily pregnant girlfriend at home on the day BEFORE her birthday.

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Firstly, happy birthday girl!! Secondly, you’re nearly there, congratulations mama! 🫶🏽 lastly, he needs to do better! I’d have a chat and be like cool you’re getting it out of your system before baby comes but equally, this is my birthday and one before baby so some effort should have been made!

Trust me I said im gonna get this mf back because us September borns are a different breed 😈

Happy Birthday babyyyyyyyyy

Bless you! I feel like i know exactly how you feel...like you're not a priority in his life. To go to carnival as well, something that happens every year! Yes you will have a birthday every year but this one you are pregnant! Hormonal and in need of support emotionally and physically. I think his decision to do this tells you everything you need to know really. Sorry 😞
But Happy Birthday!! Try to enjoy yourself today and surround yourself with people who love and treat you well

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plsssss 😩

I need a clingy, oversharing, best friend.
call me, text me, idc. just love me 😭

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Meme streak

Let’s post our most relatable meme….ill go first. We can reply to a relatable meme to you with another!!! It’s like a vent post. Keep it going!

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RANT

Hi Girls, it’s my birthday in literally 45 mins and im literally alone because my boyfriend thought carnival was more important than me…he went today instead of being with me he didn’t even tell me he was going, he purposely delayed telling me when he was there and I just feel like im done with him. I’ve already done most this pregnancy him barely scraping the bare minimum its actually hard to even fathom this is a boyfriend. I’m 35 weeks pregnant and this really hurt my feelings today. You’ve gone to carnival knowing you have a heavily pregnant girlfriend at home on the day BEFORE her birthday. Also I’m from the UK 🇬🇧 so if your unsure of what carnival is search Notting hill carnival x

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RANT

Hi Girls, it’s my birthday in literally 45 mins and im literally alone because my boyfriend thought carnival was more important than me…he went today instead of being with me he didn’t even tell me he was going, he purposely delayed telling me when he was there and I just feel like im done with him. I’ve already done most this pregnancy him barely scraping the bare minimum its actually hard to even fathom this is a boyfriend. I’m 35 weeks pregnant and this really hurt my feelings today. You’ve gone to carnival knowing you have a heavily pregnant girlfriend at home on the day BEFORE her birthday.

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Finding my people

At this point idc where you live! I’ve joined group chats that every time I reply with my own expression SILENCE I’m not the type to go into detail. I speak pretty boldly but I’m an introvert, homebody type of gal, a texter not caller. A chiller not let’s hang outter. I love my home!!! This happens pretty frequently I’ll check on old friends but then no checking on me❌❌❌. Like not everybody is for everybody. Putting yourself out there is going to include rejection. Ok but where’s my people.

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