May 1st mom how we feeling that our babies are now 4 months old
May mom in general how yall feeling also!!?
Me personally im so happy but sad at the same time I miss her being so tinyyyy!! But im so glad she’s healthy and growing !!
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My girls 14 weeks 3 days now! Honestly it’s so bittersweet. I love seeing her grow and gain new skills and hitting her developmental milestones but oh my gosh I miss my tiny girl and her newborn scrunch and her little newborn noises!! Such a beautiful and sad thing all at once x

I’m happy to see my little one grow but sad because this is my last month of maternity leave :(
Let's be so real... how's everyone finding maternity leave?
Someone asked me, "Are you enjoying your maternity leave?" As in going out, doing things, making the most of it.
Honestly? I haven't been out much at all. I've mostly been at home with my baby, and it definitely hasn't been easy. There have been hard days. My mum comes over and cooks for me sometimes, which I'm so grateful for.
But if you asked whether I'm enjoying maternity leave, I'd actually say yes. I'm genuinely enjoying the slower pace, being at home with my baby, and not feeling like I have to be out all the time. It's not glamorous, and it's not always easy, but these quiet days mean a lot to me.
How's everyone else enjoying their maternity leave? Are you out and about, or are you embracing the slow days at home too?
I’m 5 months PP
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Had a sweep yesterday and think I might have passed my bloody show today . Am I meant to call triage or not? I did ask them yday and they didn’t seem very bothered about that but I also didn’t feel she gave a direct answer
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Im a week PP and was prescribed 6 weeks of the blood thinners but I absolutely hate them!
At the end of my c-section the anaesthetist said i qualified for 10 days but the surgeon jumped in a said no my bmi is over 40 so it has to be 6 weeks. Thing is, my bmi only hit 40 at the end of the pregnancy so typically its below 40 and ive rapidly lost since the section too...
Would I be crazy to stop at 10 days and not do the full 6 weeks? Its such a big time difference and im really struggling with it 😫😫
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FTM here, this morning I woke up around 2:30am with contractions and thought I should start timing them as they felt really regular and getting stronger. Called the midwife line after an hour as they were like 3/4 minutes apart, got told to come in for observations and they monitored me for a couple of hours and was surprised how strong the contractions were and having 4 within a 10 minute timeframe. They did a cervical check and was only 1cm dilated, so got given some pain meds and sent home. Since then the contractions have mostly stopped, is this normal? Seems so strange cause they were so intense and frequent and I really thought it was happening lol
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May 1st mom how we feeling that our babies are now 4 months old
May mom in general how yall feeling also!!?
Me personally im so happy but sad at the same time I miss her being so tinyyyy!! But im so glad she’s healthy and growing !!

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How long after c section did your stomach hurt? I’m 3 weeks this week post partum

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