i’m 1 month post partum tomorrow. when giving birth i had forceps and an episiotomy (2nd degree). After giving birth i moved to the postnatal ward, i asked for stool softeners constantly throughout the day and didn’t actually receive them until about 12 hours later, so this resulted in haemorrhoids just to add to the discomfort i already had. anyway i felt like the pain was getting better in all aspects but the last week i’ve started to feel a lot of discomfort again in both areas.
Is it normal to still be really sore a month on? my check up with doctors isn’t until october 1st.
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Has the health visitor come out? Or maybe ring the health visitor they’ll advise on what to do! Hope this helps x

My midwives checked my stitches as they were infected which was causing them to be sore. I would get a gp appointment rather than waiting until you next see them. I’m one month on now too and also had an episiotomy, I needed antibiotics and I am no longer in any discomfort or pain.
Let's be so real... how's everyone finding maternity leave?
Someone asked me, "Are you enjoying your maternity leave?" As in going out, doing things, making the most of it.
Honestly? I haven't been out much at all. I've mostly been at home with my baby, and it definitely hasn't been easy. There have been hard days. My mum comes over and cooks for me sometimes, which I'm so grateful for.
But if you asked whether I'm enjoying maternity leave, I'd actually say yes. I'm genuinely enjoying the slower pace, being at home with my baby, and not feeling like I have to be out all the time. It's not glamorous, and it's not always easy, but these quiet days mean a lot to me.
How's everyone else enjoying their maternity leave? Are you out and about, or are you embracing the slow days at home too?
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Im a week PP and was prescribed 6 weeks of the blood thinners but I absolutely hate them!
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Would I be crazy to stop at 10 days and not do the full 6 weeks? Its such a big time difference and im really struggling with it 😫😫
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Where the hell did the time go!?
Is anyone starting any cute birthday traditions?
I’m thinking of making my little boy a cake every year and writing a letter to him.

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