My bf is being annoying sexually

Hii, im somewhat in your shoes. When I had mt daughter I didnt want sex for months which my fiancee was madly addicted to sex. He became understanding and let me be but the other night he waited for me to go to sleep and took it upon himself to have sex with me even after I told him I didnt want to. I had just started a new medication for depression, PTSD and bi polar and that med makes me sleep so I didnt wake up to him doing that until he was almost done. I felt so disrespected and felt like I was just a object to him. That next morning I took me and my daughter to my families place and we stayed there for a couple of days. I had a deep convo with him and told him that if that keeps happening I will leave him. Now I've onlt been with my fiancee for almost 4 years now so not as long as you've been with your bf but maybe try having a deep talk with him about how you feel and if you need go somewhere you guys could have some space for thinking. I hope things get better for you!

I also think he’s addicted to it now every since we started using toys to out sex life he’s been more pushy to just having sex only with the toy not with his which I dislike a lot I’ve told him this too but he doesn’t listen or care he says he also tried to help me which he does after he finishes but i honestly think it’s his own way of saying ok but I still made you finish even after I did. Idk all of that makes me not want to have sex anymore like I used the desire to. Instead I’m doing it with a toy which to me is like ok then what do I need you for.

I straight up tell my man if he’s gonna be sassy and whiny about stuff I say “that’s a woman thing to cry about I thought I was dating a real man not a sassy girl.” I’m not saying woman do this but he complains and whines a lot so that’s like my go to lol. Then he straightened up real quick.