A lesbian couple here and I found these msg with my wife and a coworker. Let me also say she’s very masc! She’s a dyke. You can confuse her for a boy. Does this change the perspective? 😭
I’m confused on how in suppose to feel..
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Depends on if this makes you upset or crosses your boundaries. If it does then it's cheating and disrespectful. At that point you need to bring it up and either works through it or leave if they aren't willing to change.

I feel like if you trusted your partner to just be joking around, you wouldn’t be asking the people of peanut how you should feel about this.

They’re def flirting and want to
Be around each other

It doesn’t matter whether their both masculine, their both lesbians and they’re very clearly flirting. It seems to be in the early stages though so there’s a chance that if you talk to her, she could stop this. I would also ask her how she would feel if you were texting someone with this same exact context

Where is the option for "flirting/cheating" ? 🥺
I'm currently on my period so my husband and I don't have sex when I am. We definitely still mess around alot and the last 2 days I've given him head to completion. I enjoy it so this isn't a hardship to me, but is it possible my throat is... its not sore. Thats the wrong word. But its maybe feeling a bit raw? Now is this... normal? Or like possible? Or am I just getting sick?
No STI here, hes been off work (just normal days off and some booked time off) so we've been together the entire time, we're both clean and committed.
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If your man gives you sex good one night you don’t have to be asking multiple times a week for some good sex ??

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I need someone to talk to about marriage issues and drama because man I have no one and I’m just really sad man

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Hi!
So I’m a first time mom due end of October. I’m really considering been a stay a home mom but a lot of posts on her are extremely discouraging. I imagine it’s hard not making your “own” money and the entire stay at home mom thing but are there people with positive stories? Does everyone on here feel a little lonely? I’m super conflicted
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I feel nowadays we rarely have villages to lean on and for those of us who are expats without family in the same country and friends who are married and busy as well, that it would be amazing to find other moms who we get along with and can live together with. I feel like somewhat of a fraud because I do have a boyfriend (not my son's dad) who doesn't live with me, and may never do - but what a nice thought to have a group around for support, chats, advice and also retreating away for alone time without hurt feelings.
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Like he wants to have sex everyday. I’m not in the mood like that anymore I was but a couple of months now I just don’t want to. Yesterday he was asking me what should we do I said nothing let’s just chill and watch tv he turned around on the bed mad and went to sleep. I was like wow it’s like that a girl can’t freaking just chill and not do anything sexual. Like it feels like a chore I’ve told him this now don’t bug me. It gets to the point of him now saying sexual stuff actually gets the ick now. We’ve been together 9 years now. He goes to work comes home eats takes shower play games . While me I’m home with the kids working from home on call. Trying to pick up after them all day and doing things for work exhausted by the time he gets home but hey I also need to have sex with him everyday. I wish he would just back off when I say no for him not to take it bad just ok no it’s not like it’s been months of us not doing it it’s been a fucking day or 2 and he’ll act like it’s a year.
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