WHAT DO YOU THINK?
This advice is for a friend not me..
my husband is best friends with hers and he says he thinks she’s just making him seem crazy that it doesn’t sound like him at all. I have TONS more messages from this day.. idk what to even tell her anymore..
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He obviously has some personal issues going on ! I would definitely leave, i don’t think the headache is worth it. And dealing with the controlling behavior is lowkey scary 😩
How long has your husband known her husband for ?
No one, best friends or not, knows what someone is truly like behind closed doors. I wouldn’t completely dismiss the woman
I think regardless of what's going on.. it sounds like a toxic relationship and if it's something they can't healthily communicate about and actively fix then it's not worth the headache for either of them.
I talked to her all day yesterday about it and trying to figure out how to go about it, but she says that he won’t sit down and talk to her at all that he will just start yelling. He got mad at her yesterday and said that she was messing with herself while holding her nine month old son with her 14 year-old son in the room with them…
He then refused to leave her alone because she said she didn’t want to sleep in the bed with him. I said something about calling the cops and she said last time she tried to leave that he put a pew to his head. They have four kids in their house.
Just watched The Worst Ex Ever on Netflix and this literally sounds like the start to one of those episodes…😬
It could be 1 of 2 things, or both? 1) hes possibly projecting. Meaning he is doing stuff behind her back and feels guilty so he projects it onto her. 2) he has serious insecurities that need to be worked through with a therapist 3) both 1+2
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WHAT DO YOU THINK?
This advice is for a friend not me..
my husband is best friends with hers and he says he thinks she’s just making him seem crazy that it doesn’t sound like him at all. I have TONS more messages from this day.. idk what to even tell her anymore..
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