The car seat ☠️
Ugh, I’m gutted we’re going through this again, our first was the exact same!
Anyone else’s baby just scream the moment they are in the car? It’s horrific and I feel particularly bad this time because my poor toddler has to listen to it too!
I’ve tried Osteo, toys, transferring asleep (I can dream on😅). Absolutely nothing is working, she’s the same for the pram but I can deal with that and just use a carrier. The car however, is getting exhausting. I don’t want my toddler to miss out on outings because of this😫
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How did your toddler get used to it?
Our 8 w/o is exactly the same! The pram and car seat are both a complete write-off 😂 We’ve tried the osteo too, but no such luck.
Out of interest, which car seat are you using? We’ve got the Maxi-Cosi Pebble, so I’m curious whether it’s the same one!
I had big dreams of day trips during mat leave, but at the moment we can’t drive more than about 15 minutes up the road without her purple-facing screaming 🥲 So we’re fully embracing the carrier until she HOPEFULLY grows out of it.
I’ve been told it’s quite common and that they often start liking the car seat more once they’ve grown out of the newborn insert, so I’m currently counting down the centimetres until she reaches that stage 😂
Mine is starting to get better finally. All three of mine have been the same. I ensure my 4 yo has activities in the car with her and I sing songs with her to help. We had one awful trip stuck in traffic where they were both screaming in the back but other than that these things are helping my 4 yo
Yes, it's so frustrating! My eldest started to get better when the head hugger was removed and I'm hoping my June 2026 baby will be the same. She has been a bit better since I moved her to the front seat with the airbag off so she can see me, but I'm hoping taking the head hugger out will help too, when she is ready. Shouldn't be too long now!
I know this sounds patronising but it’s not meant to be! 😂
Is the baby underdressed so they’re not too hot and are they fitted correctly? I only say this because my partner put my son in the car seat once and the straps were way too tight and he was screaming so much. As soon as I adjusted him and made him comfortable (this is my second child) he was so much better. I always make sure to go out almost straight after a feed too so that he’s asleep in the car x
We are exactly the same 😭😭 makes me so so nervous to take her out anywhere except in the carrier!! Feel so restricted! Going to try moving to the front seat with the airbag off I think x
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The car seat ☠️
Ugh, I’m gutted we’re going through this again, our first was the exact same!
Anyone else’s baby just scream the moment they are in the car? It’s horrific and I feel particularly bad this time because my poor toddler has to listen to it too!
I’ve tried Osteo, toys, transferring asleep (I can dream on😅). Absolutely nothing is working, she’s the same for the pram but I can deal with that and just use a carrier. The car however, is getting exhausting. I don’t want my toddler to miss out on outings because of this😫
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