Ideas please 🙏

Apologise but I'm gonna say it 😂Christmas 🙈what ideas you got for your kids for Christmas what will you be getting them...

in our community

SOMEONE LOVE MEEE 😭

Hii!!
I am looking for a good friend.. just someone I can chat with throughout the day. call, text, blow me tf up.

ive had sooo many say they want the same then end up ghosting me or dont reply but once a day. 😭

Maternity Allowance

How do people cope with such an amount? It doesn’t cover bills.

18 year old future mum! 9 weeks

Hi, 18 yo pregnant girl from UK finding it very hard to find friends on here as everyone seems to be a hell of a lot older than me or just not interested in replying! i’m a student who studies from home only, live with my partner and super non judgemental, music lover and wanting to find real solid friends to hang out with and explore this journey together. any messages welcome :))

White discharge in baby girl’s vagina

My baby is 13 weeks old and I noticed small, white bits (discharge?) in or around her vagina.

I don’t know if it causes her any discomfort.

Should we go to the GP?

Could I have caused this by incorrectly cleaning her during nappy changes?

How do you clean your baby girls, especially after a poop?

I know to only wipe front to back.

I don’t use any harsh materials or chemicals. I use WaterWipes and switched to a “natural”, bamboo based disposable nappy. The discharge was there before the nappy switch.

We bathe her every other day.

Potentially thinking of being a SAHM

Hey! So I'm torn between whether to carry on working or whether to quit and look after my girls.

I've only just gone back to work after my second who is nearly 14 months, my first is 3 in December. My first child has been at nursery since 13 months, the past 2-3 months she has been saying she doesn't want to go to nursery, shes had 2 weeks off and is really struggling to go back, we've had lots of tears and begging not to go. My youngest is also settling and my goodness it's like someone is ripping my heart out twice 😭

After we've paid for chIldcare we don't see much of my salary and we are fortunate that we wouldn't need it so I don't necessarily need to work. I have them 2 days a week and that can feel like quite a lot, we don't have family nearby and my husband works long hours and I'm concerned that I won't be able to cope, and I don't have anyone around to help. But I can't get away from feeling as though I'm going to regret not spending this time together but I'm worried that if I don't have some headspace then I won't be the Mum I want to be. I'm struggling with this decision so badly! Is it something you adjust too?

Has anyone had a similar experience, or can give any advice at all? Thank you!

Do you get help financially from husband?

Do you think it's within reason to expect your husband to help you financially when you go on maternity leave and your personal income is significant lower/ giving money for grocery or stuff for baby?

And if you have extended your maternity with unpaid leave should husband give you money to cover your own bills including credit card? Or because thats your own debt he shouldn't contribute?

For Context I'm now not getting any pay for the next 3 months and he has not offered to give me any money but I have personal bill/credit card to pay. Even in the 9 months he has not once asked if needed money or when I buy things for baby he hasn't asked if I need the money.

I considered applying for UC as I can't rely on him financial but he earns too much so I probably won't get it ..
just wanted to see what other people's situation is like? I hate not being independent and ask for financial help but that's the situation I am in now