What sex language are you?

Which sex language are you?

Have a read of the five most common below to discover which one you relate with most. You may even be a mix of one or two…

Then, share it with your partner and watch the sparks fly.

1/ Fun

If you love having spontaneous sex in locations outside of the bedroom, then fun sex is your language.

You are in your element when you are getting creative with your lover. Think late nights in the office, day trips to a secret beach… dare we go on?

2/ Desire

This is the sex language of those who like to be chased.

Your sexual experience will be at its peak when you feel like you’ve been pursued. You love it when your partner plans their sexual time with you, and you know they are really wanting you.

3/ Pleasure

This language is for those who love to please their partner.

If you are always curious to know what positions or acts are your partner’s favourite, then this is your sex language. Exploring and being explored will take sex to the next level for you.

4/ Patience

If you like sex to be gentle and slow, both before, during and after, then this is you.

You like for your sexual experience to take an extended period of time. Take advantage of a sleepy Sunday and let it take all morning.

5/ Acceptance and celebration

You want every part of you to be appreciated during every phase of sex (who doesn’t?!).

If your sex language is acceptance/celebration, you will feel far more satisfied during sex if you know you are valued by your partner. Not just your body or sexually, but that every facet of you is accepted.

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Does this seem fair.

I'm on maternity leave with a 4 month old and have a 2 yr old toddler.
On Mondays I have no childcare so I'm looking after both all day.
Rest of the week my toddler is in nursery for half a day.

My partner goes to a social group every Tuesday evening for 4 hrs and on Saturdays for 3 hrs.

I've said I want to have free time 9-3 on a weekend to do whatever i want to do - shopping, baking, seeing friends, etc etc.

I said I can't have free time any other time during the week as there's no point - my partner is out from 7am to 6pm Mon-Fri.

Does this seem fair?

Just advise on relationship and pregnancy apologies for long post.

Hello im going to apologise ahead of time for the post as its gunna probably be a long one.
I had a baby in jan 2025 then another baby who was preterm delivered by emegency c section at 31 weeks and 6 days which was in may 2026 i have just took 4 clear blue tests last week which are saying in 2-3 weeks which means conception was 4-5 weeks ago i told my partner that we should of been more careful as ive always been against terminations myself unless its medically necessary (no judgement to anybody as there are a lot of very valid reasons for terminations).
But all in all he doesnt really do much to help me i do all finances i do all the kids care i do all the housework he doesnt even work either so he just lays about either in my house or running around for other people which can make things difficult in the house sometimes.
Id just like a bit of advise really on what the best thing to do it due to so many complications can happen eith this pregnancy due to the issues i had with my last labour and im a little concerned as i had really bad hyperemesis in both my last pregnancies and he never gave me enough time to recover i had to discharge myself from the hospital most times due to the kids were inconveniencing him and what he had to do.
I feel bad writing this post but am i better terminating? Or am i better off just dropping the man who can not take any responsibility towards his children as things seem so much easier when hes not laying about asking me well what have you done today when i never stop.

Advice

I’m after some advice on my unborn baby daddy I told him yesterday I don’t feel happy in the relationship anymore and that I don’t trust him and I know I will be doing all the work as in all the night feeds as he is clueless i don’t really want the baby to have his last name either do you think I’m being too harsh

Loneliness and loosing my spark

I’ve been dealing with some pretty intense loneliness ever since I had my second baby. I feel like I completely lost myself and I have nothing outside of being a mom. And honestly no motivation to do anything for myself. I don’t have many friends. My husband works a ton so he’s barely home. I feel like a shell of a human honestly. Like how the heck do I get myself back?!

Who wants to be texting friends an I am good with long distance as well

I am mom of 2 an I am from Ohio

I'm looking for mummy friends in Cardiff

Cardiff mums 💕 Where are you all hiding? 😂
I’m putting myself out there and hoping to find some lovely mum friends because, let’s be honest, motherhood can be bloody lonely sometimes! Lately I’ve been feeling a bit deflated and would love some company beyond talking to the kids all day about snacks and Paw Patrol 😂

Looking for mums up for coffee, walks, random chats, a good laugh and maybe the occasional “I need a wine” kind of day 🥰🍷

If you’re also thinking, “I really need some mum friends,” then please say hi! 👋🏼 You never know, we could end up being the mum friendship group we’ve all been looking for 💕 xx