Does this seem fair.

I'm on maternity leave with a 4 month old and have a 2 yr old toddler.
On Mondays I have no childcare so I'm looking after both all day.
Rest of the week my toddler is in nursery for half a day.

My partner goes to a social group every Tuesday evening for 4 hrs and on Saturdays for 3 hrs.

I've said I want to have free time 9-3 on a weekend to do whatever i want to do - shopping, baking, seeing friends, etc etc.

I said I can't have free time any other time during the week as there's no point - my partner is out from 7am to 6pm Mon-Fri.

Does this seem fair?

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Looking for a best friend🥰

I’m tired of being lonely, so I’m currently accepting applications for a best friend… or a girlfriend. Honestly, I’m flexible 🤪😂💕

A little about me:

🏡 From Caldwell, ID
🌿 420 friendly
👦🏽👧🏽👧🏽👧🏽 A momma raising a whole crew of tiny thugs
🏠 A homebody who needs a little convincing to leave the house
☕ Always down for coffee, food or random little adventures
📱 Will send you 47 TikToks a day
🛍️ Fully prepared to support your questionable purchases
😂 Slightly unhinged, but in a fun way

I want someone I can laugh with, vent to, make memories with and become so close that everyone starts questioning whether we’re best friends or girlfriends… and honestly, either one works for me 🤪💅🏽💕

Serious applicants only—I have enough seasonal friendships 🥺😂🫶🏽

Small Rant🫣

I just need to know I’m not alone here. 😅😓

Does anyone else’s husband constantly ask for head but suddenly has every excuse in the world when it’s his turn to return the favor? 😂 Don’t get me wrong, I absolutely love my husband, and we have an amazing time when the effort goes both ways…but lately, all I hear is, “I’m too sore.” Sir, please. 💀

At this point, I’m about to find myself a girlfriend and introduce her as my new best friend. 😅🤣💀

Thanks for listening to my little rant—please tell me I’m not the only one! 🤷🏽‍♀️😂

My Boss is the father…

I genuinely don’t even know how to summarize the last few months of my life without it sounding like the plot of a TV show, but I need somewhere anonymous to get it out.

I ended a relationship with someone I had been with for basically my entire adult life. We had over a decade of history together, and although there were very real reasons our relationship ended, you don’t just erase that kind of love and history overnight.

After the breakup, I started dating my boss. I fell hard and genuinely believed what was happening between us was real. Looking back now, I feel incredibly used. And then, in the middle of everything falling apart, I found out I was pregnant with his baby.

So not only was I suddenly dealing with an unexpected pregnancy and the realization that the relationship wasn’t what I thought it was, I also had to walk away from my favorite job. A job I genuinely loved. Staying there obviously wasn’t realistic anymore, so now I’m scrambling to find another job and get myself financially situated before I start showing enough that hiding the pregnancy during interviews isn’t really an option anymore.

And somehow, in the middle of all of this, my ex and I found our way back to each other.

Not because everything from our past magically disappeared. Not because either of us forgot why we broke up. But because underneath all of the hurt and everything that happened, we still loved each other.

Now comes the part that makes the whole situation even more complicated: I’m carrying another man’s child, and the person choosing to stand beside me through it is the man I originally left.

At first, he wanted us to just tell people the baby was his. I understand where that came from emotionally, but I wasn’t comfortable building our child’s life around a lie about something that important. We’ve had some incredibly difficult conversations about what all of this actually means, and despite how complicated and painful the situation is, he has told me that he wants to stay, raise this baby with me, and love him as his own.

I don’t know exactly what our family is going to look like yet. I don’t know what my work situation is going to look like. I don’t know how many more uncomfortable conversations or massive changes are waiting for me.

A few months ago, I thought I knew what my life looked like. Now I have a different relationship, no longer have the job I loved, I’m desperately trying to find another one, I’m pregnant, and the person preparing to raise this little boy with me isn’t his biological father.

It is messy. There are parts of it I wish had happened differently. There are things all of us could have done differently. But this baby didn’t create any of that mess, and he deserves to enter the world surrounded by people who choose him completely.

So right now, that’s what I’m trying to do. Figure out the practical stuff, make peace with the things I can’t undo, rebuild what is worth rebuilding, and somehow turn one of the craziest chapters of my life into the beginning of something good. ❤️

Just needed to vent 😮‍💨

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Has anyone actually made friends off this app I've had it for a little while snd haven't made any friends

Ways to spice up foreplay as couple?

Looking for some ideas.

Just advise on relationship and pregnancy apologies for long post.

Hello im going to apologise ahead of time for the post as its gunna probably be a long one.
I had a baby in jan 2025 then another baby who was preterm delivered by emegency c section at 31 weeks and 6 days which was in may 2026 i have just took 4 clear blue tests last week which are saying in 2-3 weeks which means conception was 4-5 weeks ago i told my partner that we should of been more careful as ive always been against terminations myself unless its medically necessary (no judgement to anybody as there are a lot of very valid reasons for terminations).
But all in all he doesnt really do much to help me i do all finances i do all the kids care i do all the housework he doesnt even work either so he just lays about either in my house or running around for other people which can make things difficult in the house sometimes.
Id just like a bit of advise really on what the best thing to do it due to so many complications can happen eith this pregnancy due to the issues i had with my last labour and im a little concerned as i had really bad hyperemesis in both my last pregnancies and he never gave me enough time to recover i had to discharge myself from the hospital most times due to the kids were inconveniencing him and what he had to do.
I feel bad writing this post but am i better terminating? Or am i better off just dropping the man who can not take any responsibility towards his children as things seem so much easier when hes not laying about asking me well what have you done today when i never stop.