I’m in two minds…..

So I have recently seen a lot of influencers saying they aren’t posting there children faces anymore due to AI and people using them for the worst things you could think of possible

I post my child on fb and instagram (only family and school friends all account are private

I have also just started TikTok literally only have 50 followers I now feel so so guilty I just feel so proud of him and just want to show our day to day life

I don’t know what to do now

My mum also has him a lot and does ‘grandma day care’ post on fb and only has her friends and family on there too

I don’t know what to do & I feel as though I should be able to post what I want but also don’t want him in any danger

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Post back of head, blur and cover face, leave any and all identifying features off (name, date of birth, schools, nursery etc )
Ask yourself do you want some perv taking your babies face and using it for their disgusting wants

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The AI is horrifying. Just not worth the risk. Did you see a judge in the states ruled AI CSAM is legal?

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Yeah honestly the AI stuff is terrifying and until there’s any kind of control I really wouldn’t risk it, personally. I know someone who did TikTok and earns £££ every month and she doesn’t show any faces, not even hers, just product placements and careful editing.

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AI has just made a problem that already existed more terrifying. You also need to think how well do you reallllly know people. Also that social media accounts are hackable, and you're photos are going to their databases which are also hackable.

Like Jai said, if you want to post then make sure you censor what you post.

It's sad times that we live in now.

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Personally I'd feel inclined to keep photos private, privacy settings high, just between close friends and family, we have family WhatsApp chats and that's where we post cute moments and milestones

It's understandable wanting to show your greatest pride and joy to the world but it's just so unsafe.. all you really need to think about is what if someone did want to prey on your baby, how easy are you going to make it for them?

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I’m in two minds…..

So I have recently seen a lot of influencers saying they aren’t posting there children faces anymore due to AI and people using them for the worst things you could think of possible

I post my child on fb and instagram (only family and school friends all account are private

I have also just started TikTok literally only have 50 followers I now feel so so guilty I just feel so proud of him and just want to show our day to day life

I don’t know what to do now

My mum also has him a lot and does ‘grandma day care’ post on fb and only has her friends and family on there too

I don’t know what to do & I feel as though I should be able to post what I want but also don’t want him in any danger

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