I need advice please 🙏
Me and my partner ran before we can walk we got excited spoken about having a baby for over a year and on the first try it happened (I have a 5 year old separate to my previous relationship) the issue is my family havent met him and now im pregnant I told my mum and my mum isnt all for it she said a few horrid things and i dont think iv ever been so upset I am 31 I have a good job in the NHS I live with my daughter ( me and my partner dont live together ) but he has never wanted something so bad and is willing to work every hours and we have discussed at some point moving in but I cant help that my mum hurtful thought have messed up my mind and i feel so upset 💔 I know it not ideal her not meeting him and her feelings are valid but I just dont know :(
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Don't let your mum get in your head.
If you've been talking about a baby for over a year then you've obviously been together for over a year.
As long as you feel he will be a good dad and you're happy, that's all that matters.
Your feelings are also just as valid too! You spoke about how excited your partner is but it sounds like you are really excited about it too and that's the most important thing! You're an adult who can make decisions about their relationship, their body, their life. Don't let anyone take that away from you 🩷
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