I had my 6 week check today.
But half an hour before I went to it… I discovered a box of brand new latex condoms in my husbands drawer (I’m allergic to them so they aren’t for me), and noticed 1 left from his previous box (there’s a reason for it and I gave it to him).
Why was I in his drawer? I needed to borrow his charger.
So, trying to keep my shit together for the 6 week check was fun.
I’m going to assume you ladies would assume he is seeing someone else? Or do I try to believe there’s an innocent explanation? 😂
I’ve had my suspicions throughout my pregnancy and shortly after I gave birth something felt off.
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Playing devils advocate has it been a while since you used condoms so might he have forgotten thought you were allergic? And in his over eaganness to get back to it with you after your six week check he was planning ahead?

If you had your suspicions earlier and something felt off trust your gut, but approach him with the evidence. I really hope this isn’t the case😔
I think I’m not meant or ready to be a wife. I’ve been together and living with my partner for 3 years and although we’re engaged now. I’m happier when he’s not here!!! I don’t like to have sex with him nor do i want to have conversations with him. There were things that happened between us that turned me off. We have a one year old together and I think I’m just not ready to start this new chapter!!
Anyone feeling or going through something similar?

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I batch cook and then reheat in the microwave (because it’s quick) but I find a lot of the things come out really dry. What am I doing wrong?
For example salmon fish fingers, fritters, homemade chicken nuggets, chicken curry etc
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I had my 6 week check today.
But half an hour before I went to it… I discovered a box of brand new latex condoms in my husbands drawer (I’m allergic to them so they aren’t for me), and noticed 1 left from his previous box (there’s a reason for it and I gave it to him).
Why was I in his drawer? I needed to borrow his charger.
So, trying to keep my shit together for the 6 week check was fun.
I’m going to assume you ladies would assume he is seeing someone else? Or do I try to believe there’s an innocent explanation? 😂
I’ve had my suspicions throughout my pregnancy and shortly after I gave birth something felt off.

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( I need more people in there ) plus new friends 😭❤️

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I’m thinking of getting a tonie box for Xmas. I’ve got a 3 year old and 1 year old do you think one between them or be best one each? Anyone got 2 kids what have you found best? X
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Please help😩
So my boyfriend of 10 years, has been suffering with erectile dysfunction for nearly a year, his testosterone is extremely low and waiting for treatment. I’m 4 months PP and my sex drive is through the roof and was throughout pregnancy, every time I try to talk to him about it he starts shouting at me, belittling me, making me feel like a nuisance. I have asked him whether he’d be open to taking viagra and he hit the roof.
Now I really don’t want it, and I’m not particularly interested in him anymore, honestly my feelings have changed because he’s treated me like shit since having low testosterone.
Has anyone been in a similar situation? How did you navigate it? Is it worth me just keeping quiet to keep the peace?
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