Low T

Please help😩

So my boyfriend of 10 years, has been suffering with erectile dysfunction for nearly a year, his testosterone is extremely low and waiting for treatment. I’m 4 months PP and my sex drive is through the roof and was throughout pregnancy, every time I try to talk to him about it he starts shouting at me, belittling me, making me feel like a nuisance. I have asked him whether he’d be open to taking viagra and he hit the roof.

Now I really don’t want it, and I’m not particularly interested in him anymore, honestly my feelings have changed because he’s treated me like shit since having low testosterone.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? How did you navigate it? Is it worth me just keeping quiet to keep the peace?

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Hes probably embarrassed and gets mad cos he doesnt/cant change it. Some men are too worried about judgement even from doctors so they just ignore things.
Id tell him you're unhappy and see if maybe counselling can help. If not, and youre truly not happy, then leave. Someone elses peace shouldnt be detrimental to yours x

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Low T

Please help😩

So my boyfriend of 10 years, has been suffering with erectile dysfunction for nearly a year, his testosterone is extremely low and waiting for treatment. I’m 4 months PP and my sex drive is through the roof and was throughout pregnancy, every time I try to talk to him about it he starts shouting at me, belittling me, making me feel like a nuisance. I have asked him whether he’d be open to taking viagra and he hit the roof.

Now I really don’t want it, and I’m not particularly interested in him anymore, honestly my feelings have changed because he’s treated me like shit since having low testosterone.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? How did you navigate it? Is it worth me just keeping quiet to keep the peace?

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