What to do with dead conversations?

I can only speak for myself but my adhd and pda gets the best of me sometimes and I’ll forget to text back and then it will be weeks and then I feel pressure to reach out and then I don’t do it… or sometimes I do it depends on the person like I know my fellow neurodivergents probably understand this and won’t judge my random pop in but yeah lol

I feel the same way

I just don’t like it when I am the only one talking and whenever I ask about the other person, they say that they did nothing every time I asked them about them, the answer is nothing. If I wanted to only talk about myself, I would write in a diary. I actually prefer the ones who disappear for a year and come back to chat with me. At least they have something to tell me. I know I have times when I don’t feel like talking but that’s why we are messaging. So when we do feel like talking, we message. Maybe I am the odd ball