Hobbies?

Hiii, I’m a ftm and I’m struggling with being so codependent with my partner and was wondering what kind of hobbies do you guys have?

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I crochet and do my nails. I don’t have the hours to do designs straight on myself so I do them on foil and use them like stickers. And I’mcrocheting a baby mobile for when she goes from bassinet to crib

Binge shopping online

Lego sets, audiobooks and watercolours :)

I used to diamond paint and have some lego sets overdue to assemble. My family moved houses recently so didn't have time to touch any of these. But at least I'm trying to read or listen to audiobooks :)

Crochet, reading, writing, oil painting, journalling- i have too many hobbies😄 Crochet is especially fun for making baby bits, i’ve made 5 bonnets in the past month lol

I've managed to get back to the gym the last few weeks - I go at 6am before baby wakes up usually around 7.30 but partner is there if she does wake up. Love crochet and reading but we've been in contact nap phase the 6/7 weeks so it's rare I have two ha as free at the same time! Desperately trying to finish a Christmas blanket.

I started a scrapbook for baby, very good to release creativity and I just put a show on in the background. I also video game when baby goes to bed. I also have a letterboxd account and like watching movies so I can review them and add them to my account

I read and play Playstation ☺️ bit of escapism when my boy goes to bed

Reading, embroidery, cross stitch, book journaling, sewing clothes and bags, crochet, sketching and watercolour, jewellery making, plus I run a book club where we host bookish crafty events which is really good for meeting people x

Sewing machine/serger projects, crocheting/knitting, writing, reading library books, painting, dry clay making, diamond painting, church going, joining worship team, in a life of Christ seminary class with homeworks and tests. I am trying to add swimming but it’s prolly going to be only 1-3X a month max. I can’t do everything in here every month but I do most of it. I enjoy cooking and shopping too. My kids are 5 and 8 so they aren’t attached to my hip.

Thanks for all the ideas! 🥰

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