Help!!

I had this issue for years. In the end it was working on our general communication about our feelings and expectations with each other which in turn improved how much he helped with caring for the children x

I honestly can’t say much more other than have a very straightforward conversation with him that this is 50% his child and 50% yours. Therefore, he has to do 50% of the parenting, at least when he’s home, and to try to be home as much as possible. My husband specifically leaves work the earliest point at 4pm so he can be with us and help out with the baby. Then he works “extra hours” on Fridays to make up for the afternoons.

That’s just one example out of many on how he can be told to step up.

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