My baby girl is 2 weeks and 3 days old, and she cries quite a lot, especially when we change her diaper. We’ve tried things like dipping the wipes in warm water so they don’t feel cold, having a toy nearby, playing soothing music, using a pacifier, etc., but she still gets very upset.
She’s also cluster feeding every 15–20 minutes sometimes, and other times every 30 minutes to an hour. An hour between feeds feels manageable, but the difficult part is that she often contact naps in between. As soon as we put her down, she starts rooting again and searching for the nipple.
Sometimes after a feed, she’ll just keep the nipple in her mouth like a pacifier. And even when she doesn’t seem hungry, she often wants a pacifier during the day.
At night, we’re giving her around 60–90 ml of expressed breast milk via bottle.
I know newborns can be very demanding, but honestly, her crying can feel unbearable sometimes, and I’m finding it really difficult to know whether she’s hungry, needs comfort, or something else is bothering her.
Did anyone else go through something similar around 2–3 weeks? How did you cope with the constant crying, feeding and contact naps? Any tips would be really appreciated. ❤️
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My baby cries every time he has no clothes on or a nappy still does it now. Hates the bath just screams but soon as he’s dressed it stops.

I’m 6 months in now but honestly, the first few weeks are so tough figuring it all out.
My little boy cried a lot during nappy changes but he cried a lot while being laid down in general so I took him to an osteopath at 5 weeks, which helped him.
My only advice is to just lean into all the contact and find a good series to binge watch while you do it. I spent the first few weeks on the sofa a lot with my little boy basically attached to me and if we went out he was in the carrier 90% of the time too.
It’s still such early days and you’re both figuring each other out. There will be times where you will look and think, I genuinely don’t know what you want from me, but as time goes on you will find your flow. I can’t tell you how many times I googled what the different cries meant, but his cries all sounded the same so it was pointless 😂

Very normal..mine is 7 weeks and still cries a lot

Thanks for sharing your experience. What’s with osteopath?
My family says she will be spoiled if you’ll keep her in arms all the time. Is it true?

Sometimes babies cry for no reason at all. All you can do to try and eliminate reasons and try everything to find why she is (if there is a reason). Reasons she might be crying could be she’s hungry, tired, wet/soiled or cold. If you’ve addressed all those things, she just might be crying for no reason at all - it’s a tough time for them adjusting to life outside the womb. My daughter cried horribly during nappy changes, but my son (now 4 weeks old) doesn’t care at all. They just have to get used to everything, even the cold wipes (trust me - she will!). Sending love x

Same here. All of it, and he is 3 weeks. Non stop crying, and screaming sometimes, even if he ate, changed nappy etc. attached to my breast the "whole" time... And at night giving him bottle, the most I achieved is him to sleep 3 hours straight.
Sorry if this has come up before, I tried to search.
Has anyone successfully bought products from the offers section on the Emmas Diary website?
Where there are links to other stores with heavy discounts like 60%-90% off.
Seems too good to be true but Emma's Diary bags are legit (albeit full of marketing)
Im specifically looking at a product from The Nursery Store.
Thanks!

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My husband has always been the one who made our baby fall asleep. I didn't manage to do it well/easily until recently, but now our baby is approaching 3 months and is crying every time his dad tries to make him fall asleep. Never with me. What's going on? Has anyone experienced this? Very bad news for me (and of course awful for him).
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I’m having a bit of a breakdown girls🤣
Baby girl is 2 weeks old today & I’m really struggling with breastfeeding. Baby has had her tongue tie snipped today but she’s still struggling to feed and im literally at the edge with it all mentally. She’s still really underweight so I have lots of pressure to get her weight up as fast as I can. (Still 6lbs 4oz, remained the same since day 5).
Baby is either on the boob for 6 hours straight (where she cant get enough milk) or she’s screaming at the boob and refusing it, but constantly eating her hands and looking for nipple as if she’s starving. My supply has really dropped and I’m hardly pumping anything so I don’t really have bottles to give her. I’ve followed all the advice from the breastfeeding clinics and done everything I can to increase my supply and try my best to calm baby down. I’m just shattered and don’t think I can take it anymore.
It’s causing me and my partner to argue because I haven’t slept since she’s been born and he’s not been the most supportive. Anything I say he gets all defensive and says he’s tired too (even though he sleeps through), he then says “it’s not a competition, you don’t appreciate what I do). During an argument today I’ve told him to go to the shops and buy formula because I can’t take this anymore.
What is your advice? Have you been in this situation & just stuck with it & come out at the other end? Does it get better?
Or did you switch to bottles & get better from there?
I know it’s all a very personal thing but I’m just so torn on what to do.
I reallyyy had my heart set on breast feeding but I’m really hating it right now.

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My baby girl is 2 weeks and 3 days old, and she cries quite a lot, especially when we change her diaper. We’ve tried things like dipping the wipes in warm water so they don’t feel cold, having a toy nearby, playing soothing music, using a pacifier, etc., but she still gets very upset.
She’s also cluster feeding every 15–20 minutes sometimes, and other times every 30 minutes to an hour. An hour between feeds feels manageable, but the difficult part is that she often contact naps in between. As soon as we put her down, she starts rooting again and searching for the nipple.
Sometimes after a feed, she’ll just keep the nipple in her mouth like a pacifier. And even when she doesn’t seem hungry, she often wants a pacifier during the day.
At night, we’re giving her around 60–90 ml of expressed breast milk via bottle.
I know newborns can be very demanding, but honestly, her crying can feel unbearable sometimes, and I’m finding it really difficult to know whether she’s hungry, needs comfort, or something else is bothering her.
Did anyone else go through something similar around 2–3 weeks? How did you cope with the constant crying, feeding and contact naps? Any tips would be really appreciated. ❤️

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Please someone else say this is them and have a solution! 15 week old feeds so well during the night and just before bed but since becoming more wriggly he will just not sit still to be fed during the day! He's combi fed and takes the bottle no problem but when breastfeeding he's kicking his legs constantly, latching on and off and getting irritated which in turn irritates me and I end up taking him off cause he's barely feeding, anyone got a solution to this!?
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Hey I’m a FTM and during the height of my baby’s 6-8 week fussiness I started feeding him to sleep as it was the only thing that worked. He’s 9 weeks now and wondering what other methods yall do to get your baby to sleep? He really struggles to get to deep sleep any other way except feeding or baby wearing
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