Is something wrong with me? Sex is starting to hurt EVERYTIME now.

I have no std. I don’t have a UTI. My doctor isn’t any help really. What is the problem with me ????? ☹️

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Ever since my second baby was born this has been happening. Could I have gotten sew up wrong ? Becuase I did have a tear during birth. This did not happen after my first so I’m wondering what is wrong ??? It’s starting to frustrate our sex life. I also use lube! So it isn’t a dryness problem.

I know you guys aren’t doctors. I was just hoping someone else has experienced this and maybe figured out what was going on? Thanks for reading guys.

I had this up until 5 months postpartum! I’ll be honestly I put it off for 4.5 months as I couldn’t face the pain. We just slowly eased into it over the few days and don’t get me wrong it was uncomfortable but once we got to a certain point the pain just disappeared it was weird.
If you’ve tried and tried and nothings working your doctor should definitely be able to help. My GP recommended perineal oils.
Did you have an episiotomy or tear at all?

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