Feel bad feeling this way. Does anyone relate ?

I look at friends without kids or just 1 child and see the freedom it gives them and I'm really questioning my life choices. Toddler stage with multiples is so hard. I'm tired. I just want to get on a plane and go away and escape.

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I get it but I also wouldn’t trade places with any of my childless or single friends, especially as one has told me she’d love to be me.

My best friend ran off to NZ but she’s single and starting to panic date as she approaches 40. My other childless friend is a borderline alcoholic and out clubbing with 20 year olds cause everyone else moved on and there’s no one left who wants to live like that. The dating pool gets into the second hand goods and divorced dads territory at some point.

We might think people have freedoms we don’t but if we really knew their struggles we might change our minds.

can u not escape with ur kids ?

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Feel bad feeling this way. Does anyone relate ?

I look at friends without kids or just 1 child and see the freedom it gives them and I'm really questioning my life choices. Toddler stage with multiples is so hard. I'm tired. I just want to get on a plane and go away and escape.

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Hey lovelies! I wanna make a group chat community for the mums that feel alone or just want some friends etc so we can all offer advice and support! 🩷 I’m 19 with a 8month old from Kent UK. Can join from any age and wherever your from!

Drop a comment if interested! 🩷