Looking for someone i can have chats with and just general friendship.
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Baby boy due in january - this will be my first š

š hi had my first little baby girl in may

Hello my boy was born in nov 2024
I stupidly believed someoneās sob story whoās on probation for dv. All in all the whole thing lasted 3 months and sadly I noticed his behaviour changing to where I could see this going horrible so I ended it. Heād talk down to me and if I said something he didnāt like heād snap back telling me not to get involved etc. he was doing stuff online that I didnāt like and heād make me feel like I was ruining everything. Heād constantly be telling me about his financial difficulties, felt like he was hinting for me to help him out, I never did. we discussed recent sti checkups which we were both clean, we were doing long distance and ended up sleeping together on the first date, wasnāt planned and I said to him we shouldāve really used something but I guess it happensā¦turns out weeks later heās admitted he never does but because we were together at this point I kinda brushed it off. I came off the pill earlier this year and have been tracking my cycle naturally, he came in me one time literally just before my period and I did warn him that he canāt do that. Fast forward to about 3 weeks later and it was around my ovulation and I said he needed to pull out, he never finished but a couple of days later we slept together again and I said again that I was around my medium chance so needed to pull out, he came inside me, I didnāt realise until he actually told me a couple of days later and said to him on the phone that it shouldnāt of happened and that I should get a plan b which he started saying that I was disgusting for it and that itās the same as abortion and heād think differently of me and me being the person I am that worries, I didnāt stupidly. Iāve had a really bad uti for the past 3 weeks and has made me really poorly, heās said that I must have an sti but that I could also be pregnant and heās like wishful thinking on his end and now weāve split Iāve found out he made a dating account whilst together whilst texting me on nights out telling me not to cheat on him. Iām concerned heās going about sleeping with vulnerable girls and trying to get them pregnant whilst trying to control them. I genuinely think he could attack again. Can this be reported? I feel really stupid over the whole thing.
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Letās make a chat! Comment if you want to join and Iāll message you!

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I started dating guy but we didnāt have sex until after he asked me to be his girlfriend. We did other stuff which was great but not actual sex. I feel bad because heās so sweet, caring, the nicest guy iāve ever dated but the sex is terrible. Like the worst sex I ever had. I know sex isnāt everything but I have a high sex drive. I tried telling him what I like and to his credit he does try but itās still so bad. Itās been a month but it somehow gets worse. What do I do?š
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Looking for someone i can have chats with and just general friendship.

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Iām 21, nearly 22, and a mum to a beautiful 21-month-old baby girl š„° Iād really love to make some more mum friends and build some genuine friendships. Being a mum can sometimes feel a little lonely, and it would be so nice to have other mums to catch up with for coffee, playdates, walks, chats and just doing everyday mum life together. Iād love for our little ones to make friends too and hopefully create some friendships that last beyond just a playdate š¤ If youāre also looking to meet some new mum friends, feel free to message me! xx

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Even when its hot!!!
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