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England

Ex on probation, can this be reported?

I stupidly believed someone’s sob story who’s on probation for dv. All in all the whole thing lasted 3 months and sadly I noticed his behaviour changing to where I could see this going horrible so I ended it. He’d talk down to me and if I said something he didn’t like he’d snap back telling me not to get involved etc. he was doing stuff online that I didn’t like and he’d make me feel like I was ruining everything. He’d constantly be telling me about his financial difficulties, felt like he was hinting for me to help him out, I never did. we discussed recent sti checkups which we were both clean, we were doing long distance and ended up sleeping together on the first date, wasn’t planned and I said to him we should’ve really used something but I guess it happens…turns out weeks later he’s admitted he never does but because we were together at this point I kinda brushed it off. I came off the pill earlier this year and have been tracking my cycle naturally, he came in me one time literally just before my period and I did warn him that he can’t do that. Fast forward to about 3 weeks later and it was around my ovulation and I said he needed to pull out, he never finished but a couple of days later we slept together again and I said again that I was around my medium chance so needed to pull out, he came inside me, I didn’t realise until he actually told me a couple of days later and said to him on the phone that it shouldn’t of happened and that I should get a plan b which he started saying that I was disgusting for it and that it’s the same as abortion and he’d think differently of me and me being the person I am that worries, I didn’t stupidly. I’ve had a really bad uti for the past 3 weeks and has made me really poorly, he’s said that I must have an sti but that I could also be pregnant and he’s like wishful thinking on his end and now we’ve split I’ve found out he made a dating account whilst together whilst texting me on nights out telling me not to cheat on him. I’m concerned he’s going about sleeping with vulnerable girls and trying to get them pregnant whilst trying to control them. I genuinely think he could attack again. Can this be reported? I feel really stupid over the whole thing.