in

COVID-19: US Mamas

Just venting

Hey gals
So for the last three to four months my boyfriends mom has been living with us, she decided to leave everything behind in Texas and move to Las Vegas with us. I was against it for the longest and kept telling my boyfriend I don’t want her here, I pushed back with him over this for almost a year. Fast forward to three, four months ago he abruptly had her move here so he could go to work during the day despite me working during the day. We have an almost three year old together who does not attend daycare. His dad had a night time job for two years that was working for our family dynamic and he got fired a year ago from it and in my eyes I don’t think he cares to find a night time job to be there with our son during the day. He brought his mom here to babysit despite him saying he didn’t. Now all we do is clash, she wants to run things in my home and I am just not having it. Now she wants to control the air conditioner temperature because she has arthritis, I get hot so quickly after having my second son, I can’t be hot for more than a minute or two in my home. She looks to me to do everything like cook and clean everyday and go to work six days a week, look after my two kids, do my school work and maintain the home. And looks to her son for nothing. I am tired of her and honestly I’d rather be homeless than to deal with this all. Our lease is up in 17 days and we have nowhere to go and I don’t care to move with them. I am so tired of giving people grace and adjusting to everyone else but no one does the same for me. Her nor her son has bothered to pick up a box and help me pack anything in this home and quite frankly I’m just over them both to the point where I feel like spazzing. I no longer buy things in the home, I buy things for me and my boys only and hide it. My boyfriend has a gambling addiction and his mom likes to drink and their money is not for household items only mines. He now supports her habit because she’s broke and I am just not having it. I’m just ranting but could use some support or advice on this matter. I am currently waiting for a pay raise from work that could be anywhere between three and six months then I will be well off to support me and my boys but it seems like it’s taking forever idk…