Ladies help. Me and my husband just don't have sex anymore.

After the baby we had sex a few times in the first few months but now it's probably been about 3 months since we last had sex. I'm 11.5 months postpartum. My sex drive used to be low. It ain't super high now but I want sex but my husband is always tired. Granted he worked shifts and it's been hard trying to find time to fit it in around baby's schedule and his work schedule but now he's off work for a couple of weeks and he just doesn't initiate. Neither do I anymore because I can't be asked with the rejection. So I've resorted to masturbating and a vibrator but I want some real flesh man I'm bursting. I posted on another chat before and ladies said he sounded depressed etc as he doesn't look after himself well with eating and always being tired but how do we get out of this rut? Other aspects of our marriage is good but sex is important and at this point I feel like I'm begging.

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Mum friends - how do people make friends?!

Finding it super difficult to make mum friends at the moment! My little boy is nearly 10 months and I haven’t succeeded in anything more than a few messages or if I talk to people in person at a baby class, it’s just a quick small-talk convo and it never goes anywhere! Feeling a bit deflated because I’d love to have a small group of like minded mums to chat to as none of my friends are in the same stage of life as me ❤️

Sorry to sound mopey, just feeling a bit lonely!

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Help settle a debate with partener AGAIN 🤣

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What sauce would you put with this type of chicken sandwich

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Can a lady just finger me????

I’m losing my mind. My partner wont touch me. I physically need a reset. Yes i can satisfy myself but it just feels dead. Anyone in the same boat??😭😭 i feel like a teenager

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Chat much??

Alot of people dont communicate much on here are yall real or are yall matrix bots???

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Need help

So I have this small dry erase board and my dad that passed away a few years ago wrote a happy birthday message to me on it dose anyone know of a way I can seal it so it’s permanent and won’t erase I was thinking to pour mod podge over it slowly put I’m scared of it smudging or getting erased

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Would you have an issue if your male partner made a new female friend?

So not someone he knew before he met you, just a new person that he met through work, hobbies, mutual friends or whatever, and became friends with.
Assuming the new friendship is the same as his existing friendships, and the ONLY difference is that the new friend is a female

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