Mum guilt

It’s okay, girl. You’re doing the best you can 😊 I remember finding it so overwhelming at 3 months with just one baby, let alone two! 😅 It’s still so early days, and I’m sure with time you’ll find your own groove and going out with two will be easier for you.

I honestly think if you pushed yourself to go out more when you were already feeling overwhelmed, and then continued to feel that way, it could just lead to burnout and make things even harder. It’s much better to do what you can, at your own pace, and make sure you’re okay so you can be present and happy for your babies, rather than pushing yourself to a point where you have nothing left to give. ❤️

I also had my second baby when my daughter was 3 years of age and felt a similar way. I just made sure I was paying her alot of attention when my youngest was napping. So I would do things like bake cakes with her and doing pictures drawing etc. Now she's five and when it's the school holidays I take her out to eat at a restaurant while her younger sister would be in nursery so that she has that one on one bounding time with me.

I feel this way too. I tell myself it’s just a short time and eventually I’ll have energy to take them both out to different activities. You’re still present with them at home and that matters!