Feeling like a terrible wife

I think it depends… did he get his leg checked out to see what was actually done to it etc..

I also feel like he could at least help with the kids on things that don’t involve doing much walking or moving if his leg is hurt to make you feel less alone in it sometimes I feel like moral support is more helpful than physical support in some situations. I would say it also depends on the kids ages

Honestly nobody can have a true answer unless they are there to see how bad the situation really is

if you was annoyed simply because he’s not doing much when injured then it’d be different but because your annoyance comes from you still having to do things even when you’re injured/poorly, that doesn’t make you a bad wife at all. I think anyone would be annoyed at the double standard. I’m not sure what your relationship is like but maybe have a conversation with him about it or slip in a little ‘joke’ like “next time I’m ill it better be you doing all this” x

I have severe endometriosis which gives me pain comparable to being halfway through labour, 24/7 from the moment I open my eyes to the moment I go to sleep.
I also have a recently diagnosed brain disorder that, among many other symptoms, causes my legs to become temporarily paralysed on random occasions, lasting anywhere from a minimum of 5hrs to just recently it was 6days. While my parents helped out by cooking us meals and going out to do food shops, I still got around on crutches and did everything else for myself and my 3 year old.

I truly don’t think I could find it in my heart to have sympathy for a LIMP when sometimes my both legs are literally completely paralysed and I still have to be a mother 🙈 but maybe that’s harsh from me idk x