Random but any help with relationship advice
Ment to be marrying my partner July next year but in the last couple of months things have been rocky. He spent £800 in one day on onlyfans and has since then done it the odd time again but only £50 a time on the odd occasion. This was until last night where he has spent about £400 again. Would you stay or would you leave. Along side the spending he is messaging these people saying how attractive they are yet he never tells me that.
Sorry it’s not baby related but had no where else to turn.
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Honestly, I think I’d walk.. My husband doesn’t watch porn, never mind actually paying another woman for I presume sexual content, and I genuinely believe a man shouldn’t need another woman sexually when he has his own wife/partner at home.
Obviously every couple has different boundaries, but for me it wouldn’t just be about the £400 or £800. It would be the fact he’s actively choosing to spend money on and message other women, telling them they’re attractive, while you’re his fiancée. I’d find that incredibly hurtful and disrespectful.
And personally, I’d be putting the wedding on hold until I knew this was genuinely dealt with. I wouldn’t want to marry someone hoping they’ll change afterwards.
You deserve better than that. The fact you're the mother of his child as well. Absolutely disgusting and unforgivable imo. I'm so sorry 💔
Absolutely do not settle for that I’d be out the door x
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