Don’t come for me, I’m a first time mam and still learning! When I am out, I haven’t been doing a “hot shot” or mixing formula into hot water as I have been using the nuby rapid cooler and just cooling the correct amount of water down e.g. 4oz of boiling water then pouring it into a bottle (I use mam bottles) and then adding the powder but I have been researching and it says I should be mixing it the powdered formula into hot water to get rid of any bacteria however when I am out I can’t sterilise the nuby rapidcooler and sometimes we use about 3 or 4 bottles depending how long we are out. I use SMA First Infant Milk. What does everyone else do? I’m stressing🤣 I need advice as I don’t really want to have to get pre-made formula as it’s just means having to spend even more money.
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I take a flask of hot water to use for a hot shot and then have the remaining amount of water cooled and measured into little bottles, or we just buy ready mades!

Measure out how much water you will need for the feed, leaving about an ounce of hot water in the bottle pour the rest into the cooler to cool, and mix the formula with the hot water in the bottle, once the water has cooled you can then mix this into the hot formula in the bottle. Means you don’t need to sterilise the rapid cool each time xx

You can get a portable steriliser for the Nuby rapid cooler x

I measure the bottles out with hot water before going out and just take the amount of formula she has in pots and she drinks it cold. I have found this is easier for me.

I filled the bottles up with the amount of water needed then had the formula scoops in a formula seperator container and dumped it in as needed . If I needed a warm bottle (which was rare cause my son drank it no matter the temperature) I put the bottle with only water in the microwave for a few seconds then add the formula shake and go ✨

I used to either take a flask of hot water or ask for it when out and id tip the hot water into the nuby but leave 1/2oz in the bottle and mix the formula in and then add the cooled water from the nuby

I take a flask of cold water and a flask of boiling water, do a hot shot and then add cool water. I use use the rapid cool flasks x

I just kept it simple and took a flask of boiling water. Made it up full, let it cool for 20 mins in the bottle holder on the pram. Takes even less on a winters day. No faff, knew when they were due a feed so would just sit down for 30 secs to pour and shake it like a cocktail whilst walking. Ready to go when they were ready.

I make a prepped bottle out with me and then take 2-3 bottles with formula powered pots inside and get the hot water when I am out and ask for a cup of cold water. Cafes and coffee shops are more than happy to help. I have found this is the easiest thing to do after trying a few different ways xxx

I can tell you now that many are going to hate my comment. But I do my bottles first thing in the morning put boiled water in the sterilised bottle and leave them cool down naturally. Don't see the need off making more stress for myself. This worked for my first child and I have no issues with my current
Weird one, my little girl is in a continuous cycle of trying to do headstands in bed. She worms around pushing her head face down against the mattress and rams it up toward the frame of the bed. I try and try to redirect her to a more comfy position but it is constant. She’s fighting naps and night time sleep a fair bit too and this behaviour has been around for quite a few weeks now, although she slept through for the first time in forever last night.
We thought it was teething, then I took her to my gp yesterday just to rule out ear infection. I’m wondering if it’s her own way of self soothing? Sometimes she’s quite chilled doing it and other times it’s whilst she’s crying. We’ve checked for trapped wind, give her infacol and probiotics and ruled out allergens etc in case it was tummy upset. When we thought it was teething we also gave her calpol and teething gel and it didn’t stop her doing it. I don’t know if it’s a regression behaviour or a phase or whether somethings wrong?
Has anyone else had this with their kiddos? I’m a ftm and I’m just trying to figure out if it’s normal. 😅

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I use the Huckleberry app, and a lot of the advice for daytime naps seems to be blackout curtains, white noise, etc. But that feels a bit excessive to me when it’s the middle of the day, so I’m looking for more realistic advice.
My baby is 3.5 months old and actually sleeps quite well at night. He usually only wakes 2–3 times to breastfeed. We used to co-sleep, but he has recently moved into a next-to-me cot and is doing well there at night.
Daytime naps are a completely different story! He pretty much refuses to sleep anywhere except his BabyBjörn bouncer. Please don’t come at me about the bouncer, I sit right beside him and watch him closely the entire time.
The problem is that because I have to stay there watching him, I can’t get anything done while he naps.
Has anyone managed to get their baby to nap in a cot during the day without completely blacking out the room? I’d love realistic tips on what actually helped your babies sleep during the day in a normal, light room. Did they eventually just get used to it? Any routines or tricks that worked for you?
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Breastfeeding
Pros:
- Better for baby
- Don't have to pay for formula
Cons:
- I'm probably gonna get touched out
- Worries, what if I don't produce enough, latching etc
- I want my partner to be able to handle feeds too
- I'll be going back to work after 9m
Formula
Pros:
- Already know what I'm doing
- Dad can do feeds
- Feel like this will be easier when baby starts nursery at 9m but don't know.
Cons
- More expense
Also please give me more pros/cons for both as that might help me make a decision 😅

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Not sure if this is going to sound silly but what are we doing with fluffy coats/pram suits etc I feel like washing them is going to ruin them or make them look shabby

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Some advice please !!!
My LO is nearly 12 weeks and the longest stretch at night is 4.5 hours that’s happened VERY infrequently and most of the time he sleeps only 1.5-2.5 hour blocks. I’m exhausted, emotional and finding I am getting frustrated and inpatient at night because I feel as though we should be making some kind of sleep progress at this age. I then feel guilty about being frustrated later in the day.
All I can find is info on sleep 3 month regression at this age but I don’t feel like he’s even progressed to have a regression?! Is it normal to still be feeding on demand in the day and night? Occasionally he’s settled back to sleep with rocking and no feeding but not often. Is there light at the end of the tunnel ? My partner works long hours so I try not to involve him in nights but lately it’s been a joint effort but as I’m EBF, he can’t do much so I feel I always end up waking up anyway even if he does help out.

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Online I read somewhere around 4-5 months day naps could start lengthening. Has anyone’s baby started doing this who previously only napped 30-40 min? Just curious!
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