It's looking like I will have a planned c section at 39 weeks, I am terrified! It's such a common procedure but the fact it's major surgery really scares me.
What are people's experiences?
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I had an emergency c section and honestly not half as scary as I expected it to be. I had been pushing for almost 2 hours (10lb 10 baby, back to back) and so the relief I felt when the spinal tap went in was immense! The surgery team were lovely and it was such a lovely calm environment. Everyone introduced themselves by name and what their job was, my husband was right beside me the whole time and we could still delay cord clamping, do skin to skin etc. We put music on and the midwife took pictures of the surgery too so we have the memories forever. I had the section at 6:31am and was up and showing by 2pm. It was peak heatwave season so the worst bit for me was having to wear compression socks for six weeks and be on blood thinners for six weeks. It does take time to heal but make sure to air your scar out where you can every day and take it slowly, particularly in the first couple of weeks. I'm now 11 weeks pp. Feel free to ask any questions!

I had a planned C-section with my second and it was a really positive experience. The waiting in the morning is hard because it just made me more nervous (and I was very hungry š ) it is also very strange walking to your own surgery. But the staff made me feel really cared for and relaxed. Baby was out very quickly once the surgery started (I actually didn't even realize they had started when I heard his cry). And once he was born my attention was all on him and I didn't really care what was going on with the surgery. Recovery was much easier than I expected it to be.

I had an emergency section, I had been labouring for 12 hours before things changed and they decided I needed to go down to theatre.
I agree with the first comment the feeling when the epidural goes in itās a real relief.
Obviously not everyone feels the same, but even as an emergency one it was a beautiful experience, daunting of course, itās new, your feelings and fears are valid, but the second they place baby on you, itās like youāre not even in theatre, your bubble starts there and its great. My surgical team were lovely and honestly I have no regrets, if I had another Iād have no fear personally about having another.
I had my boy at 22:38pm back on ward by about midnight (after being closed up and obviously in recovery) and I was up and showering by about 5/6am. (This was 2 years ago so canāt remember exact times)
I was personally on blood thinners for 10 days, recovery was easier than expected
Feel free to message if youād like to know more
Good luck and congratulationsā¤ļø
Waters broke atĀ 2am
Itās now 11am and hardly any (if at all) contractions.
Currently on the ward but how can I get labor going?!
I really really really donāt want to be put on a drip!!!
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Hey mummas!
Im 6 months pp but planning on trying for another at exactly one year. Has anyone else had a pregnancy after c-section 1 year pp? How was your experience? Did you have another c section or a VBAC ? Iām really curious!

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My son's first birthday is on May 11th, which is a Tuesday. For his party obviously I'm gonna decorate, do this whole big thing. But it's like for one, do I do it the weekend before and that's Mother's Day or wait a whole week and do the weekend after? Also I want him to wake up and walk out to a nice big decorated surprise on his birthday. But I don't wanna keep all the decorations up. So what are we doing? Are we decorating twice? And just not going as big the first time, but doing something special for him.

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So babys head has been down into pelvis now for around 2 weeks and midwife today said its fixed and wont be coming back up. My last labour (first pregnancy) was induced so i have not been through spontaneous labour before.
My due date is in 3 weeks (16th october) but I have been having braxton hicks randomnly on and off for a few weeks now.
What are peoples previous experiences with head being fixed and can it be a sign I might come early?
I dont finish work for another 2 days and still so much to do at home! Keeping everything crossed it stays put š

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Iām really torn between going ahead with an induction at 39 weeks or changing my mind and having a planned C-section, and Iād love to hear from anyone who has been in a similar situation.
Iām a first-time mum and originally wanted a planned C-section, mainly because I have a strong family history of very fast labours. After speaking to my consultant, I became more comfortable with trying an induction.
The proposed plan is 39+0, potentially skipping the balloon if my cervix is favourable, having an epidural early, breaking my waters and giving things around 1ā2 hours to get going. Iāve been told that if thereās little/no cervical progress, we can discuss a C-section, and that I can change my mind about continuing at any point.
My biggest concern is that I REALLY want to avoid forceps/ventouse. If an assisted delivery was being recommended and there was time to safely do a C-section, I would personally prefer a C-section.
Iām worried about a situation where I reach the point of wanting/needing a C-section, but the unit is very busy and thereās a delay getting to theatre Iāve also just had an 11-hour wait in maternity triage for leaking fluid/reduced movements. I completely understand that women who are seriously unwell have to be prioritised, and Iāve had some lovely experiences with the maternity team, but seeing how stretched the unit was has made me question how accessible that āPlan Bā would actually be during an induction.

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Had a massive gush of blood on Sunday ended up in a&e. EPAU follow up today for a scan and anti d injection. Wish me luck š

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