Sorry to get graphic ladies but this been on my mind đ€·đ»ââïž
So⊠with my first pregnancy my sex drive was through the roof pretty much the whole way through, I initiated it and enjoyed it!
However⊠second time around
(currently 34w pregnant)
I havenât thought about it in monthsâŠ
I like to pleasure my partner
(he puts no pressure on me to be intimate!) but nothing feels good for me⊠like touching myself, him touching me and penetration⊠feels like without a good load of lube my body is rejecting it and when we have done it, I get absolutely no pleasureâŠ
I guess Iâm wondering after countless google searches if thereâs anyone who is/have experienced the same thing.
Feels like somethings wrong and my self esteem has taken a hit tbh đ„Č xxx
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absolutely nothing wrong with you, i know iâve seen genuinely hundreds of posts on here over the years with the same âproblemâ. if your partner isnât putting any pressure on you ( as he shouldnât ) then stop putting pressure on yourself as that will only make it even less likely for you to feel âin the moodâ. if youâre saying this and donât have any libido, then donât put any pressure on yourself to enjoy things just wait until you have a higher sex drive and actually want to participate. until then, as long as youâre still wanting to, you can just pleasure your partner as you have been if that makes you both happy. it doesnât have to be equal or you both cum to be worthwhile intimacy xxx

I was the same way through my pregnancy, My sex drive was gone. When we did do it I didnât really find pleasure. I think at first my boyfriend was scared to do it and then as I got bigger I was just uncomfortable in my skin and exhausted. We wait the 6 weeksâ recovery after birth and I will say I didnât expect it to actually feel good but definitely felt back to our normal sex if that makes sense. Itâs mind over matter try to relax. Side note even tho we didnât have much sex we do it when I was 38 and half weeks and I went into labor the next day so orgasms do help induce atleast for me
Itâs been one year⊠I donât even know how it goes anymore. My husbandâs not trying. We donât have time alone ever.
Are we doomed?
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