Not sure how I feel about announcing 3rd baby… any one else felt this way?
So I’m now 10.5 weeks pregnant with 3rd baby. My 12 week scan is booked in for the week after next.
My first two children are twins a boy and girl so most people probably think we’re not going to have anymore. Also my daughter is SEN and non verbal at age 3. Our son had a speech delay but now is a very chatty toddler and has completely caught up 😊.
Anyway I’ve only told my mum and sister that I’m pregnant and no one else knows. I can’t help but feel we will get some negativity with announcing this one.
We don’t ask for help.. never ask for baby sitters. I stay at home with my twins and they go to nursery twice a week and my partner works full time. The only person who occasionally looks after the twins is my mum for the odd appointment and we are ok financially.
The older I get though the more bitter people seem to be in general which I don’t think is personal but people just seem like that these days. We did have some negativity with my twins which was odd as I was 30 and in a stable relationship 😅
How was it when you announced your 3rd? Did anyone else feel this way?
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Not my 3rd but, my 2nd. First is non verbal (autistic) there are many people i still haven’t told for the same reasons😂 Only my mum & my partners mum know. We also never ask for help, in fact we decline help. We do great financially, but obviously there is the Immediate opinion that our hands will be full because of my sons needs, and that we should only give our time to him. I’m just not in the mood for the commentary really or the intrusive doubt, even if they mean well. Almost 18 weeks now😬 maybe i’ll announce it at Christmas 😆
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Not sure how I feel about announcing 3rd baby… any one else felt this way?
So I’m now 10.5 weeks pregnant with 3rd baby. My 12 week scan is booked in for the week after next.
My first two children are twins a boy and girl so most people probably think we’re not going to have anymore. Also my daughter is SEN and non verbal at age 3. Our son had a speech delay but now is a very chatty toddler and has completely caught up 😊.
Anyway I’ve only told my mum and sister that I’m pregnant and no one else knows. I can’t help but feel we will get some negativity with announcing this one.
We don’t ask for help.. never ask for baby sitters. I stay at home with my twins and they go to nursery twice a week and my partner works full time. The only person who occasionally looks after the twins is my mum for the odd appointment and we are ok financially.
The older I get though the more bitter people seem to be in general which I don’t think is personal but people just seem like that these days. We did have some negativity with my twins which was odd as I was 30 and in a stable relationship 😅
How was it when you announced your 3rd? Did anyone else feel this way?
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