Husband tired

Snap. Although, I do tell my husband that we're both tired and it's not a competition (as that's how it feels in our house!). I think a lot of partners just assume the person at home can't be tired because they think they can almost sit around all day? The broken nights are soo tough, I'm here in solidarity with you. My LO has only just started to sleep in her cot and not contact nap - today I got my very first 20 min 'sleep when baby sleeps' 😂
Maybe try and get in any extra sleep where you can?

Omg this is me in the last few weeks of deep trenches of sleep regression - exact same situation, except that hubby works from home & wakes up just 5 mins before his morning meetings and still says he is tired while I hear him snoring through the night in his bed with his useless nipples! Really effing annoying, but I had a chat about this and we agreed the baby will sleep with daddy on Saturday nights so I can get at least one night of satisfactory sleep (and I'll pump before)

That’s such a shame and I’m very sorry you’re going through this but you have to be honest and comms how you feel before it turns into resentment.

Honestly he needs to man the fuck up that’s a joke, why is he not helping with nights at all? I think the only sort of excuse would be if you’re breastfeeding but even so sleeping in a different room? My partner does all the nights for our almost 2 yr old (i get our may baby) sometimes only getting 3-4h of sleep total then goes to his manual labour job and then does 50/50 childcare all evening. You really need to talk to him about this, he’s well within his rights to be tired yes but that doesn’t mean he’s exempt from being an involved parent and giving you a break/chance to sleep x