Is anyone else having random bouts of anxiety? I’d say they’re more like anxiety attacks than constant anxiety but I’ve never experienced it in any pregnancies before not to this extent. It’s making me feel physically sick and keeping me up at night.
If you’re experiencing or have what did you do to help? Did you seek help? I can’t really pin point what’s causing it last night I started thinking about giving birth and got scared and had a panic attack that went on for hours and kept me up all night and then today suddenly making my morning tea it hit me again but this time no rhyme or reason. It’s making me tense and on edge idk what to do it’s not nice feeling this way I’m usually such a happy go lucky what will be kind of woman 😖
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I've got severe anxiety this time round as having an IVF baby after 2 losses.
If I find myself spiralling, I use grounding techniques.
5 things you can see
4 things you can touch
3 things you can hear
2 things you can smell
1 thing you can taste
Also breathing techniques:
- breathe in through your nose for 4 seconds.
- hold for 4.
- breathe out through your mouth for 4.
- repeat.
The main thing is getting to the bottom of your anxiety. Is it to do with labour/birth? You can speak to your midwife for advice
I’ve no idea what the cause is. Last night I was anxious about birth but this morning I was just making tea and had a panic attack where I was crying and couldn’t breath feeling sick etc.
I’ve given birth 4 times before so I think it’s deeper than that tbh. I feel stupid telling a midwife I feel anxious, she’ll just say oh that’s normal I feel like anxiety has become a joke subject in society tbh ‘I feel anxious’ is probably used so often it’s become diluted to how serious that feeling can actually be
Is anyone else having random bouts of anxiety? I’d say they’re more like anxiety attacks than constant anxiety but I’ve never experienced it in any pregnancies before not to this extent. It’s making me feel physically sick and keeping me up at night.
If you’re experiencing or have what did you do to help? Did you seek help? I can’t really pin point what’s causing it last night I started thinking about giving birth and got scared and had a panic attack that went on for hours and kept me up all night and then today suddenly making my morning tea it hit me again but this time no rhyme or reason. It’s making me tense and on edge idk what to do it’s not nice feeling this way I’m usually such a happy go lucky what will be kind of woman 😖
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What have you mamas or mamas to be have been doing to keep the time going? Has anyone tried dates yet? Dancing? Walking? Hobbies? These last few weeks are exciting exhausting but boring sometimes bc I don’t know what else to do 😩

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I feel bad leaving my October 2024 baby in nursery 2 days a week, when I'll be off on mat leave from mid December for my late Dec/early Jan baby. But time alone with baby might be good for us?
Did/will you have yours home with you or continue their usual nursery/childcare routine?
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I know a lot of people are generally scared about this test, but honestly, in my experience today, it was straightforward and not bad at all . The drink was thick and tasted like soft lemonade with a taste of honey towards the end (I don't know why it had the aftertaste, but it was a good drink) 🤣
I just felt tired after towards the end (obviously sugar crash), then took my second lot of bloods, then I was on my merry way.
So I spent most of the day resting and trying to just keep myself distracted and ended up never getting the phone call amd my results came back normal so overall I'm happy about that and I hope this post might ease people's anxious thoughts about the process but you got nothing to worry about. Again, my experience was different, but everyone's experiences to the test are different, and that is normal, too, btw.
But let me know how you guys get on with the test.
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Today I have finally packed my hospital bags 👏🏼 38 weeks on Monday and 3rd baby so a bit late but I’m due a planned c section at 39 weeks although I still don’t have a date and im stressing.
Really don’t want to go into natural labour myself before and end up in an emergency section. 🤦🏻♀️ Is anyone else still waiting for a date??

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So I'm 36 weeks and 6 days pregnant and I am 2 cm dilated. Hopefully my little girl will hold out a little longer until the first of October since we will have money for gas for the car then. Only 8 days way. Hopefully it's slow progressing.

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