Surnames

If you’re not married he’s not entitled to be in the name simple

I’m thinking of doing the same thing

I can see why you’re considering it, especially if you two are regularly arguing and he’s disappearing for days at a time. ❤️
I’d just try not to make the decision while you’re in the middle of an argument or feeling hurt. Think about what surname you’d genuinely want your baby to have even if your relationship stayed exactly as it is now.
And yes, plenty of children have their mum’s surname, so it’s not unusual at all. Just remember that the surname and parental responsibility are separate things, so having your surname doesn’t automatically affect his parental responsibility.
I’d take the pressure off yourself and have a proper conversation about it when things are calm. ❤️

MY BABIES HAVE MINE

I wish I’d done this with my first. It’s a huge regret of mine.

I wish I didn’t give my bb my bfs last name