It’s my second and I really want a surprise at birth, but I’m such a control freak and keep looking at private scans at 14 weeks 😂 anyone else planning to not find out the gender? How are u keeping strong haha
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Me! We didn't find out with our first either - and that moment my husband told me it's a girl was so lovely, so I want it again!

I’m 16 weeks with no2, and we didn’t find out with our first. I would love to do it again, as loved my partner telling me. My guess the whole way through was wrong and we were so surprised!! He really wants to find out. I’m staying strong😂

We're not finding out & we didn't the first time either. I don't find it difficult at all! I think it keeps you going in labour because you don't know and excited to find out! X
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It’s my second and I really want a surprise at birth, but I’m such a control freak and keep looking at private scans at 14 weeks 😂 anyone else planning to not find out the gender? How are u keeping strong haha
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I’m 11+5 and I self refered at 6 weeks. My midwife appointment went well at 9 weeks but I still haven’t heard anything from the hospital 😬 should I get in touch with them? It’s a hospital I’ve not been to before so I don’t know how last minute they can be but it’s making me super anxious that I haven’t heard yet 🫣

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