Sleeping through

Hi all so my nearly 3 week old is wanting to sleep through the night she has had no issues with her weight and is gaining really well. Can I let her sleep through or do I keep waking her? TIA x

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We just went through this! Our pediatrician had us waking him every 3hrs to feed but at his 1 mo appt said we could let him sleep. I’m not sure if it was because he was 1mo or because he was over 10 lbs but it’s lovely to not have to wake him anymore. We wanted to follow what the doc recommended but I know some couples who ignored that advice 🤷‍♀️

I was told if baby is above birth weight let them sleep ☺️ and you get the sleep too mama!!! Xxx

Our baby is the same, I’m EBF though so my midwife told me to wake him after 5 hours so I don’t get mastitis so just be mindful of that if your feeding yourself 🥰

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