I truly see now why people get divorced after having a baby. I wish guys knew and understood what we got through physically, mentally and emotionally to bring a human into this world and then having to deal with a newborn
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Agreed, men need to appreciate us more.

What I discovered with my first baby is they can't guess. Some won't get it no matter how you explain it to them, but some will and just need to be told how to help (which is annoying they need to be told but if it works it makes life better)

100%. Definitely makes you look at your partner differently after not being supported during this time.

Communication.
Hi all, I have been facing discrimation at work after I told my manager I am pregnant and that I am going on a leave for 1 year.
Manager told me that he wants to get on a call with HR. I had no idea what to expect. Manager and HR and get on a call and they suddenly tell me out of nowhere that they think I am not performing well and that they would like to put me on a PIP. HR also gave me an alternative option of an exit package.
Does anyone know what the highest out-of-court settlement or exit package payout a company has ever made to a UK-based employee to resolve an employment dispute?
Its a very clear case of employement discrimation (backed with evidence), and it seems like under Equality Act 2010 - there is is no cap today.
With no cap being there, it could ho to any amount.
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I thought this app was for moms to connect and chat. I seen nothing but BORING and UNINTELLIGENT women. Bashing and hatred. Where is the love????
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I truly see now why people get divorced after having a baby. I wish guys knew and understood what we got through physically, mentally and emotionally to bring a human into this world and then having to deal with a newborn

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I know this may sound silly but anyone just feel ‘ugly’ and not themselves. I try do my hair/skincare and get ready for the day but even so just feel and look Ughh. No clothes look flattering, even loungewear. It’s sad because I never take pictures of me and my baby and in my head I always say I’m going to but just never do. Feel like I need to get the perfect shot :( I see so many mums on Instagram/tiktok that look so well and get all these amazing photos with their little one and I just can’t.
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Hi lovely ladies 👋
I'm looking for a OBGYN and private hospital in Melbourne and would love to hear about your experiences before I book. Who have you loved, and who would you steer clear of?
If you'd rather not post a warning publicly, feel free to DM me 💛
Thank you so much!

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Hello! Anyone would like to message or snap? I’m a boy mom of two. I’m from Ohio. But long distance friends are great too! ☺️ I’m always bored and feel lonely most of time. I’m nonjudgmental and will talk about anything! Kids, life, relationships, etc. let’s connect!

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