Men are lame
Do recently I joined two different Bible studies and I try to work on them throughout the week especially when my fiance is homeso he could sit with her if shes fussy and stuff like that yesterday i tried doing that maybe 5 minutes in he walks into the living room and says “shes being fussy and i donr know why
So i go in the room and change her diaper then go back to the living room maybe a minute later he comes back out and lays the baby down and says he has to go to the bathroom maybe half an hour later he comes back out of the bathroom and at this point ive givenup on doing my bible study work he walks right past me not even trying to take the baby back a little while later I tried to have a conversation with him and basically say lole how can i eventually go back to school or anything like that if when your home you cant even waych her for an hour so i can do a bible study he told me he doesn’t wanna spend his fays off watching a baby and he wants to do things he likes on his days off what do i do
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What?? It’s not a baby.. it’s his baby too!! See what men don’t realize is that when you choose to lay down with someone and create another person, BOTH parties are equally responsible! Not saying I would, but just as a man can walk away and leave, you can too!! You want to do a bible study? I’ll get up early before him and the baby, get dress and leave!! Don’t say nothing at all, but just get up and leave!! See I’m arrogant like that because what do you mean you don’t watch your own child on your days off.. maybe you should have never created any! Everybody in this group and on this app would love to get up and just do whatever the hell they want to do on their off days but guess what? It’s called “RESPONSIBILITIES”!! I get so upset when my fiancée comes to me and say that I should be “LUCKY” to have a man around like him because men don’t do what he does! Now I am blessed, he is a wonderful father but I always tell him.. I can get up and leave both of y’all if I want to because who
Gone stop me?? Not saying I would but don’t think you’re doing me any type of personal favors when he is your son too! Sorry, that stroke a nerve!
Maybe I’m just being petty but if it were me I would say well it’s our child which means both of us should be taking care of the baby and helping each other and I don’t get a choice I don’t get to take time off from the baby so if that’s the case and you don’t want to be a parent and be there even when it’s not convenient then that’s fine but you need to cook all of your own meals and do your own laundry and run all of your own errands bc I will be caring for the baby full time now and won’t be available to do the things that you need to do for yourself as an adult. Since you don’t see us as a team then we need to separate our chores and responsibilities to just do our own things. And stop doing everything for him no more cooked meals or laundry don’t clean up after him. Just make food for yourself and the kids
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Do recently I joined two different Bible studies and I try to work on them throughout the week especially when my fiance is homeso he could sit with her if shes fussy and stuff like that yesterday i tried doing that maybe 5 minutes in he walks into the living room and says “shes being fussy and i donr know why
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